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<![CDATA[Welcome! There is definitely some attentive, engaging, great man in NC with herpes (hsv2) for me. I'm relocating in May...and it would be Fantastic if we could lay the foundation for a great friendship NOW... So, I�m looking for just one great guy..Yes, all the bells and whistles apply: kind, Self-assured, but at the same time vulnerable. Honest�.FIT and trim (and You know what this means), Patient�faithful.. Let�s talk; which for me means you are a man who *Communicates and .....chooses..... to do so. I have depth, witty, artistic and Straight-forward which you have the maturity to deal with. I�m 5�4 and intelligent. I know how to laugh at myself. I also have a clue about this fantastic world we live in. You are loving. Clean-cut but no push-over. Being well endowed intellectually and physically a plus. So, Introduce yourself (that would require more thant one line. Si?); tell me about you, what you seek in responding. And, we�ll see if we can take two of us off the market....lol...Must be at least 34-40, just depends on that mutual attraction �thing�� and what you seek. Be prepared to send a picture; attraction matters no point in pretending it does not. I prefer TAN/GOLden/Bronze hued men which encompasses many. I'll post my pic later, it's blurry (it is CL after all)......lol..... and the type of physique I like...lol...I need strong arms. Thanks! BS unacceptable! Sorry ]]>

<![CDATA[I am self employed, own my own small business, and make a good living, I am looking 4 a partner whom will enhance and improve my life. Most people at this age are so worried about the future they don't enjoy the present. So I want someone who has money and loves life also. Besides a man should financially support a woman and a woman should please her her man. Also I want a man that enjoys sexy teddies and stockings, I wear more make up to bed than outside the home. You must be a sweetheart because my man needs to tell me I am beautiful everyday. It is not hard to please a woman and keep them happy, so don't email me if your not a sweet talker and wanting to put his girl on a pedi-stool. It is also easy to please a man if you want to. I know how. I will for warn you that I have more power tools than most men (compressors, air guns, saws, ect..)and I know how to use them. ]]>

<![CDATA[Ilive in florida looking for someone who wants to stay in florida and travel somewhere in the summer Iam looking at north carolina Where I live we have pools s and more and you must like a cat and dog Iam looking for a old not young no way send picture,]]>

<![CDATA[Hello gentlemen, I am looking for a man to spend time with. A romantic type who is of a Christian or Buddhist religion. Someone who would like to hang out and make me laugh and forget about work every now and then. I have my own business, my own place and my own life. I have never been married or have any children. I am looking for someone with a like mind. Athletic, Good Looking, Not too young, Not too old. A zest for life and a personality. Pls send me a pic and a few things about yourself. I'll be happy to respond with one of me. I am 5' 7, long black hair 120 lbs. Athletic build. This is not meant for any spam purposes. I am a real person looking for a real person. If you are interested, I'd be more than happy to share more. ]]>

<![CDATA[I,m a 45 year old black woman who is separated I,m looking for a steady man who likes to enjoy life and does not have to lie and be who he isn't. Who enjoys going to the beaches parks lakes and loves water. Must be over 5ft 7 because I,m 5ft8. Must be able to stand on his own to feet.]]>

<![CDATA[ I just can�t believe some of the post on CL! Some are just so demanding, crazy, & funny! But what irritates me the most out of all the post is...must be HWP!! What size is that??? Surely not what you see on TV & in magazines! And, before I go any further this isn�t just some fat chic ranting & raving it is just one stating the facts. Who defines HWP? Who said that being fat is ugly? Fat woman are beautiful & sexy people! God loves me just the way I am! Judge not! Fatness doesn't make the person�s, loyalty, morals, values, beliefs, attitude, or confidence! See we've got to stop letting society brain wash us into what is beautiful and what is not, we are all God�s people so what right do any of us have to judge?! It�s not like I asked to be fat and I am pretty sure other woman/men didn�t either! Yes we are humans & it�s only in our nature to be physically attracted to one another, but with that said looks are only skin deep & fade with age & it�s on the inside as to what really matters! We all have need, wants, & desires but sometimes with have to be willing to compromise! I know that I am an attractive, thick, curvy woman who has confidence in herself & who has right much to share with the right one! I am Iooking to start with friendship, dating, and then LTR. That�s what you are supposed to do right? A true relationship begins with friendship! I am only getting older wanting the ideal life of happiness, a nice home, marriage, kid(s) etc... I am a REAL woman so of course I want you to be a REAL man too. I just want to be found & to be loved for who I am! I am NOT into in BS so don�t waste my time & yours! If you are still reading this a little about me: I have brown hair/eyes, about 5�8, I am a loyal, forthright (as if you can�t tell by this post), caring, honest, very open, goal oriented, dedicated, go getter, conservative, type of person. I enjoy go out to dinner, the movies, traveling, bargain shopping, the beach, spending quality time with one another, family, & friends. I love dogs. I am willing to travel to meet & you must be too!!! If not then don�t waste my time or yours!!! Lastly, but surely not least you must be a communicator! I am a firm believer that communication is very important in a relationship & one of the keys to a lasting relationship! Email me with details about you & let�s see what happens. (I post this on the R-CL area due to the lack of post on E-CL area) PLEASE put �REAL� in subject line to avoid those spammers! Thanks! ]]>

<![CDATA[Hi my is Gwen what I� am looking for is someone who doesn�t play games. I am not looking for mister right. Because here is no such thing, what I� am looking for is mister do-right. You know who you are. Someone who would treat a good women with respect and kindness and get to know her. Not afraid to be honest about yourself. I moved here from NY and would like to meet someone who doesn�t drink or smoke. I like all kinds of music, to cook and read I enjoy movies. God and my family and friends are very important to me. I will share my picture with you when you reply. ]]>

<![CDATA[Let me start off by saying I DO HAVE PICTURES, but refuse to post them up here because there are just wayyy to much spam out here. I am a 25 yr old african american woman just hoping that there are still some gentleman out there. I am hoping that I can meet someone and become good friends and then take it from there. I am a good woman! Am I saying that I dont have flaws, no im not, we all do....But I can honestly say that I am a good woman I have my own place, own car, never been married, and no kids. My faith is very important to me and i just love to have fun. Just hoping that there are some good decent men left out there who know how to treat a woman with respect. Well I have many other characteristics, and if you would like to know more about me, please feel free to send me an email. Your picture gets mines. As yes I am a BBW....but I am attractive and I carry myself very well. I am honest, loyal, and classy. . I must admit I am a little old fashion when it comes to dating (I am abstinent and I will remain abstinent til marriage). Even though I am old fashion, believe me when I say that I am very conserative when it comes to the things of life. PLEASE BE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 24-31 ]]>

<![CDATA[i am 21. I am deaf know how to use sign language. If you dont know how to use sign language we just could write down a paper. i have black with different hair and alot of tattoos.. i love to travel, go to the beach, shopping, ALOT to do stuff. i am fun person... i got three nice cars :) i not lookin for sex. and TIRED of play game! I am lookin for serious relationship first. NO BUM GUYS PLEASE!!! i cant stand bums guys!! thanks... hit me up if ur interestin so reply with PICTURE! i wouldnt reply if NO picture. thanx! ohhh yeah i got facebook and myspace ]]>

<![CDATA[Beautiful BBW, Fairly active, Loves to laugh and have a good time. I am looking for someone who likes to hang out and have fun. Maybe we can have dinner and a movie.... Let me know if your interested.]]>

<![CDATA[Hi So i am a bbw 45 divorced looking for some company this weekend.... Lets get together, hang out, movie dinner, muesum, anything and if things work out and there is chemistry, lets have some adult fun..... Pic for a pic ]]>

<![CDATA[sitting home drinking a beer and wondering if anyone else is bored.]]>

<![CDATA[I am a smart, sweet, single, and thick woman. Looking for a good guy. Race doesnt matter. Please be between 23-35. I dont smoke but drink on ocassion. I love music, dancing, movies, the outdoors, meeting new people, drinking coffee, and good conversation. Your Pic gets mine.]]>

<![CDATA[I'm looking for that special man,the one I can hold close to my heart who likes to enjoy music romantic excursions movies dining traveling and most fun activity no drinking problems,drugs,cigarets or antidepressants. I'm honest loyal passionet woman who likes to enjoy life. if you are interested respond with a picture ]]>

<![CDATA[Is there a white man out there that wants a BBW? I have a big heart and love kids especially since I already have a son. I want someone honest, compassionate, trustworthy, and loving. Must love cuddling and snuggling and be ready for a true relationship. I don't need someone that is still stuck on an ex girlfriend or ex wife. Please don't do drugs or have a long criminal history. I don't smoke and ask that you are the same or atleast trying to quit. I do not do drugs and am not 420 friendly. I do drink on occassion and don't mind if you do too but do not be a drunk lush that can't get out of bed without his beer. I am a country redneck girl so please don't be a preppy city boy that thinks there is nothing better than ambercrombie and fitch. I am wanting a long term relationship built with emotions and love first so I am not going to be hopping into bed with anyone quickly. I do not want someone that just wants sex either. Now if I haven't run you off please email me and lets get to know each other. ]]>

<![CDATA[ HI GUYS, BLACK BEAUTY LOOKING TO MEET 1 SPECIAL FRIEND. NOT LOOKING FOR PHONE SEX OR WEBCAM, LOOKING FOR SOMEONE REAL THAT'S NOT INTO THE HEAD GAMES. I WILL KEEP IT SHORT. NO DRUGS MUST BE HEALTHY AND SAFE I WILL SEND YOU A PICTURE AFTER I RECEIVE YOURS. (PERIOD) I DON'T AND I WILL SAY AGAIN...I DON'T DATE YOUNGER MEN. I'M LOOKING FOR SOMEONE MATURE AND RACE IS NOT AN ISSUE I DO HAVE MY OWN PLACE AND VERY MUCH SINGLE, IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE LEAVE ME A MESSAGE NO PICTURE NO REPLY. AND SORRY IM LOOKING FOR MEN 45 AND BEYOND.................................................................................................................................................]]>

<![CDATA[hello...i am a 41 year old BBW...i am honest....sincere.....laid back.......and looking for something real.....starting out as friends.....and hopefully building/developing into something more....i am NOT into the bar scene...i DONT drink.....do drugs.....or have drama in my life....NOR do i want any.......I am looking for a caucasian man......someone that is honest......real....trusting......someone that knows what they want and will work hard to get/keep it.....NO DRAMA....HEAD GAMES PLEASE!!!! look forward to hearing from you.....]]>

<![CDATA[To sum it up...I'm looking for a guy just like Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory. Tall, skinny, technologically inclined, likes to argue, someone who wont let me win all the time It would also be nice if he liked music and some outdoors stuff (Not sports!) like camping and hiking ((These are the not like Sheldon qualities)) Finally, I really want a guy who wants to hold me. It's ok if it takes awhile to get there. I can wait. :)]]>

<![CDATA[Hello, I'm a 23 yo, very attractive, black american female. Looking for a new friend. I'm very down to earth, love to laugh, and have fun. I'm brown skin, 5'3, 175 lbs. Your pic gets mine. So get at me if you are interested!! Thanks.]]>

<![CDATA[I love live music...Raleigh Downtown live, local music scene. Shopping for a bargain is always fun too! I get pretty excited about the State Fair. I am ultimately seeking a companion to venture through life; therefore, no random hook ups or friends with benefits. Please have the basics in life....car, job, home, morals. Have 1 child and definitely want another (soon). I am not prefect but I am pretty close :) Attractive, have all the basics and a very open-minded, down to earth chic! I am swf attracted to all races. Email me about you with a photo please. ]]>

<![CDATA[Greetings: I am a professional and intelligent SINGLE BLACK FEMALE who loves to laugh and have a great time. I enjoy music, concerts, live jazz, romantic excursions, dancing, movies, comedy, reading, museums, theater, fine dining, traveling, and most fun activities. I am honest, loyal, considerate, passionate, loving/affectionate, respectful, kind and caring woman. (I prefer a male companion who has the same qualities). I have yet to be blessed with kids, its ok I am fine with it. I don�t mind you if have kids - without the drama. To be very detailed about my expectations - I am interested in a �SINGLE� Confident BLACK MALE who is capable and mentally ready for a healthy, loving, respectful courtship, for the ultimate goal of establishing a meaningful long term relationship. A man who understands that communication is the key in order to share our feelings emotionally, physically and mentally is very important too me!!! Being mature, having a sense of direction and not playing games. A man who is attractive, confident, intelligent, creative, open-minded and adventurous. I am dependable trustworthy woman; l am interested in a male companion whose trust factor is credible. I will always trust you until the trust factor has been violated. Friendship, including mutual trust and respect is a requirement for me to be comfortable when involved in a sexual active relationship. I am a woman who will love you for who you are, not what you are, I am not interested with my feeling being tossed around like a basketball. It�s imperative that I make myself clear - I am very selective with whom I choose to associate with, as well as sharing me feelings with. I am not interested in a player and I do not have the time and I will not make the time for a thug. I am a huge fan of HONESTY and a great sense of humor! I am not looking for the "perfect man" but I am looking for a man that's perfect for me. I want a man who is 100% mentally and emotionally stable, loves his career, SEXY, smoke free, drug free, fun and easy to be with, creative, spontaneous, well liked by his friends and family and a best friend. I am looking for a healthy, interesting, exciting relationship that will hopefully lead to a life long friendship. Are you smart, employed, and consider yourself a great catch? I enjoy doing different things within reason and I feel extremely happy to be alive. I have so much to offer. I never have a difficult time finding dates, but I am tired of the routine dating scene. People never cease to amaze me, so AMAZE me. If you are interested and your qualifications meet my requirements please respond with a picture � No picture! I will not RESPOND. NO! Explicit pictures. A Diva is a terrible woman to waste! ]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for new friends, I had a super long day and just looking for a brainless conversation? Care to chat? : ) perfer that your not creepy, : )]]>

<![CDATA[I think thats pretty clear right? It should be easy right? Isnt that what guys always say they want? Some cool girl to drink some beer with and maybe partake in the 420? Then have some sex and say see ya in a few days? Yeah...should be easy to find...but its so fucking not! So here is the deal. You be smart, funny, cuteish, So my ideal man would be like...Seth Rogan. Im not saying you should look like him or be like him..but he is kinda my ideal. You should have good taste in books, music, movies...Actually...you could have bad taste as long as you have an opinion...Anyway...we can go from here ]]>

<![CDATA[Hello, well you must be you open it up to see what I had to say, I am A SWF Looking for A SWM, to get to know and hopefully things work out, I am tired of being alone, I am on here for real, I am not into those Games grown people play on here, I am down to earth Caring woman who is looking for the same in A man, and Honesty is very Important,,,,why lie about your self and if you decide to meet how are you going to get out of that lie, and A good relationship should be built on love , respect and communication and honesty, I am A hard worker, not looking for Material things I am looking for one good Man, I do not care how big your house is or what kind of car you drive or how much money you make I care about you as A person, ,I treat people the way I would like to be treated and that is Good,I love to laugh and have A good time, I want to find that special man that when we are apart, I think of you and it puts A smile on my face, I am very easy going, know there is A good man out there for me, that is tired of being Lonely also , ready to have A good woman in his life, well A little about me I am 5;8 in heigh and Yes average size, the weather will be changing soon I hope, and ready to get out there and have some fun, like going to concerts, races, or A weekend get away, to spend some special time together, well if you like what you read and are tired of being alone and Please No Games, I do not like the games people play on here with someone feelings, then e-mail be back and tell me A little about you and what you are looking for, and please say more than A few words, so I know you are really serious, And I am not into one night stands, so if that what you are looking for then don;t respond because it is not going to Happen,,,]]>

<![CDATA[So life handed it to me backwards. I have the most beautiful baby who is going on 7 months old..... but no father for her or husband for me. We arrived in North Carolina for March 1st and are still extremely new to the area. Right now I'm a full-time at-home Mum, and that is my job. I'm searching for a man that is clean-cut, professional, family-oriented and seeking longterm with hopes of marriage ... that enjoys children, could love my daughter and would want more. I love church, bookstores, going out to coffee, Thai food, movie buff, would like to take my girl to aquarium, zoos... camping, canoeing, fishing, .. daytrips. Show us the area, and yes my daughter makes me an 'us'. Dating me would be very family-oriented as she is still an infant and needs time with her Mum. If that scares you off, I'm sorry, but she'll always be first in my life. I hope to find the rest to complete our life, like a good man might, ... Please include pictures in reply.]]>

<![CDATA[So heres the deal--i wanna know how men REALLY feel would you date a nice girl if she was pregnant and not with the dad?? I was kinda put in a position -the father is in denial and im being honest but doesnt want nothing to do with the babt till 9 months so he can do a dna at this point i just feel he can take a hike--im not gonna suffer and go through with 9 months of enjoying a child grow to have him just pop back in and say --oh im sorry NOT im a being selfish?? and hes not dating me i guess i was a booty call -even use pre-caution to protet us so this is why he is angry to the kid --I have not been with any one but him and i am a good person with a good heart work full time and have a teenager . so really if i wanna date is it possible i can meet a good man -even being pregnant. Its a sad story but i am strong and will make it!!! ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a married lady looking for a little romance. I am a black woman who happens to be really heavy. Please don't reply if you are not into BBWs as it would be a waste of our time. I'm looking to be spoiled, pampered and romanced. I tried this once with no success. Please know that this is all new to me so please be patient. Race and age not important.]]>

<![CDATA[Black female. 1 kid. Chubby chick. Non-smoker. Occasional drinker. Never touched a drug in my life. Looking for someone 18-28. I like tall(not a must), skinny, mixed, white, asian, hispanic guys. Like going out, watching movies, bowling, going to shows. Do you? Let's hang out. Alice in Wonderland looks pretty good. Prefer a non-smoker, but its not a deal breaker. And no drugs plz. I am looking for something serious. If you'd rather sit at home and get high with your friends than hang out with me don't bother. E-mail me if interested. Bye.]]>

<![CDATA[HI:) WOW, this harder than it looks to describe your self, but here it goes:) I am 40, divorced,5�8/160,blue eyes, long brown hair. I do not have any children, just my 2 cats and me for now. I am originally from up North. I am honest to a fault and speak my mind,which tends to get me in trouble sometimes:) Personally, I love to travel,love the mountains,cooking,exploring historical spots,reading,concerts,movies,and I love a good cup of coffee along with a stimulating conversation. I enjoy the arts and museums and tons of other stuff,too long to list here. I definitely have some 80's chick left in me lol, love metal,rock,long hair,ect.ect. I am certainly no where near perfect and I am not looking for perfect, just perfect for me:)If your looking for Barbie,I am not her,I am definitely more of a tomboy type than a girly girl. I do not care about age,race,looks, I hope to fine someone that is caring,honest,and has a good heart and soul. I smoke,can be brutally honest(typical northerner), heck we all have our faults:) We all have our good points also, just seems harder to list them haha. I suppose a few of mine are, I am faithful,loving,honest,and most say funny. I guess i am a bit old fashioned,whether good or bad, I have no interest in a one night stand,fwb, or whatever they call it these days,I hope to make a friend first,can never have too many, and take it from there. ]]>

<![CDATA[22 year old white female bbw here. I am a college graduate who works full time and loves music, movies, animals, traveling, and going out. I'm looking for a relationship, at the least a good friendship! No friends with benefits or anything dumb like that. If you are what the title says, email me with a pic and I will get back to you! Ciao.]]>

<![CDATA[I'm a caring,, cheerful girl, looking for a guy who can appreciate all that I can give. I like to work out and take care of my body. fitness is a high priority of mine. My puppies are my world, but don't automatically dismiss me as a "dog person" - I've had cats, turtles, bunnies, fish, and snakes as past pets. I'm not just looking for someone to go out with every once in a while, I'm looking for a friend I can treasure for life. , I am so ready to show you what I got, so hit me up if you think you can handle it!]]>

<![CDATA[I'm a... wonderful person. bitch. writer. artist. music lover. twin. fatty. perfectionist. semi hipster. girly girl. semi tomboy. smoker at heart. social butterfly. great friend. loyal companion. protective family member. student. lover AND fighter. photographer. stubborn mofo. people person. night owl. emotional chameleon. debater. weirdo. reader. believer. living contradiction. beautiful person, on the inside and out. Having recently gone through a string of tumultuous relationships, I have little faith in humanity as a whole. That, of course, does not include my best friends and family, who never cease to amaze me. It does, however, include almost anyone with a peen. I'm not really looking for a long term relationship at the moment, but I've been known to be easily swayed by the occasional intriguing individual. What might qualify you as intriguing might you ask, oh man of craigslist? Well, I'm a sucker for a man with a brain. Who can be witty and keep up with me on a mental level. But, I've found that many people with school smarts lack street smarts. I prefer a man that I can hold a conversation with on a topic that stimulates me mentally and peaks my interests. If I'd have to choose between a man who's extemely smart but also painfully awkward and a relatively dim witted man that i can carry on a conversation with ease, I'd choose the man I could communicate with. Hands down. Every time. I like a guy with a passion for music, art, writing, and/or film. Passion in general is always a plus. And tall ness (over 5'7). That's some hot ness right there. Some physical attraction needs to be present for two people to really connect on a more then friends level, but my idea of attractive is based largely on very primal, unexplainable things. I tend to not set up requirements on who i date based on a few "features" that i typically gravitate towards. Those features are ever changing anyways, so that would be pretty hard to do. I understand, though, that this is a lot easier for women to do. Guys base a lot more on physical appearances, and have very concrete likes and dislikes. So, guys of cl, if you don't like a girl with heft don't bother to reply to this. If funky tatts and piercings aren't really your cup of tea, don't waste your time and mine. I'm not out to change someone's views on their ideal mate. You shouldn't be out to change mine, either. And send a goddamn picture, I'll send one back. ]]>

<![CDATA[Ive recently joined several social and dating sites in an effort to expand the possibility of finding Mr. Right. I am however not afraid to find Mr. Wrong, so long as he is capable of providing some fun along the way ;-) I am not really a person of preferences when it comes to men, i like a variety of flavors and sizes ;-) Lately Ive hit a dry spell due to being too involved in work and study over the past year and a half. I am not going to make this long winded, if you are daring enough to contact me based on what I have provided you are the type of guy ide look into, if you want a life story before even shooting me a line....move on, the novel section always leads to nothing but a quite corner! ]]>

<![CDATA[I am looking for a MAN between 50-60 years old that exudes confidence and can still be gracious. I want someone that will be there in mind, body, and soul. A good conversation goes a long way. If you come with alot of drama please pass me by. Please be SINGLE ( not married with problems, girlfriend, or getting divorced) I will not be the other woman. I am looking for a relationship not a one night stand or FWB. I like to listen to music, go to plays and concerts, and just hanging out having fun. If you can get me to do more this will be a plus. Feel free to tell me about yourself and what you like; I'm sure there's no one as unique as you...]]>

<![CDATA[........To spend quality time with, ........To hold me when I need TLC, ........To understand when I've had a bad day at work and need his strength, ........To share me with--totally, completely, endlessly, ........To know that I will have his back, ........To intertwine our lives, ........To share the ups and downs ........To be happy with and ........To have the honor of being my Black King. Me: SBF searching for her King.]]>

<![CDATA[I am a SBF 39 looking for a SBM for a long term relationship that will hopefully end in marriage. We must be friends first! I am a well educated single mom with absoulty no drama. I am a BBW with long hair that is all mine. I am 5'8 n height with long hair and caramel complection. I like exactly Jill Scott. I am looking for a SBM that is eduated and is not into playing games. A person who has time to be in a relatioship who is ab le to be a one woman man. He must be honest, loving and caring and DDF as I am. If you send a picture I will send one back. I'm not on here seeking a one night stand. You must be tall and easy on the eyes. Employed, have transportation and a place to stay( momas house doesnt count.. no excuses)I am not on here to play games, or have my heart pulled out and stomped, nor do I want to be lied to, cheated on or have games played with me! I am only on here looking for a REAL and true black male that's SERIOUSLY looking for a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP that should possibly turn into marriage. *****You must send a picture with your response.**********]]>

<![CDATA[I am not prejudiced but find myself most attracted to tall, intelligent black or mixed race men. I find such men more physically attractive and usually full of personality. I am a tall white female, blond, borderline BBW. I'm very attractive and don't have a problem meeting people, but I just need to meet the right one. I am a one-man kind of woman. I am independent, intelligent, fun and outgoing. I am looking for someone single and unattached only, who wants a LTR with just one woman. If you are interested, write and tell me about yourself. I will exchange pic for pic. Thanks for reading :)]]>

<![CDATA[My last boyfriend and I broke up the day before Valentine's Day.. It was my choice, and I didn't want to do it.. Though now I'm glad I did it, 'cause after it happened, I found out who he really was :/ I've had just a lot of different emotions going on since then. I've been keeping myself busy with work, but it sucks coming home to an empty house every night and not having someone to hold me when I fall asleep. I'm not asking you to move in with me or anything, but I would really like to find a guy to cuddle up with, watch movies, go to dinner, concerts, the beach, etc. I am 5'7" so please don't be any shorter than me. I have my own place, my own car, and a professional full time job. You must have at least your own car and some form of income! I have a ton of tattoos, and it'd be a plus if you have tattoos as well. Though, if you don't have tattoos, it's fine, as long as your mother doesn't decide to judge me before she gets to know me. LOL. I love all types of movies and all genres of music. I want to go to almost every concert this summer. I like going on vacation, especially to the beach. Also, please be between 20 and 30 years old and Caucasian men only (no offense, just a personal preference). If you've made it this far, please send me an email with a picture and a little bit about yourself. Put 'darling' as the subject for your email so I know you're a real person! Thanks :))]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for a special someone to help me out. I am into younger men but I will not single out the older ones either. Seeking a SWM between the age of 28-40 to basically be my sugar daddy. I am not into Hispanic, Indian, nor black men. I love tattoos and a goatee on a man, that's just so sexy to me. I don't want this to be a one time thing. I am looking for someone that is willing to be on going with me. You don't have to be my bf just my sugar daddy I am a SWF that is a BBW. So if this is you and you are willing to help me out, Reply to this ad and send me your pic. Lets go from there and see what happens. Looking forward to hearing from you soon. So I know your not spam please put in the subject line "I am him!!" Thank you ]]>

<![CDATA[hi div mom seeking good black man for ltr. I have posted on here before and ended up with nothing but games and lies. If you are on here trying to see how many ladies you can score with.. im not the one for you. You must be seeking 'one' special lady in your life. Please be drama free. I can understand if you wanna be friends for a lil bit before taking it to the next level. I'm not on here seeking a one night stand. You must be tall , thick.. easy on the eyes. Employed, have transportation and a place to stay( momas house doesnt count.. no excuses) Me: 5'7 hazel eyes, thick- size 12-14... very attractive million dollar smile. I have my own home with more than one vehicle. So please respond if you fit the ad, if not good luch in your search, Your pic gets mine. NO exceptions.. ]]>

<![CDATA[ I love to laugh!! I love humor! I love sarcasm! I love a guy who can dish it and take it! I am looking for my own sexy Jerry Seinfeld to complete my life. Are you out there Jerry?? ]]>

<![CDATA[I am not looking for a one night stand-but rather an actual relationship. Here are my stats and desires: I know what I want *you should know what you want* I am 20 *you should be at least 21 but not older than 32* I am a Christian *you should be too* I have blue eyes *you should like that...and you should have eyes. lol* I have long hair (mid to upper back) *you...well it doesn't really matter but I like long or curly or both...but neither is required* I am out of shape (but getting back into shape) *you should be ok with that (I am shrinking pretty quickly anyway)* I am white *you should be white or ethnic...but I am not attracted to black men* I go to the gym and eat healthy (usually) *you should do both of those too* I love rock music *you should love it too...or at least love music of some genre (that isn't rap)* I work two jobs and have a car *you should have a job and a car too* I have two dogs (small but not yippy) *you should like dogs and/or have your own* I love the outdoors (being outside is romantic) *you should at least like the outdoors* I am pretty laid back *you should be kinda spontaneous too* I think that is enough for now...I wonder if you will reply? ]]>

<![CDATA[I will like to date a nice doctor or surgeon and explore the social side of medicine. I enjoy music romantic excursions movies,dinning and most fun activities I'm honest loyal considerate passionate, loving caring woman. If you interested respond with apicture.]]>

<![CDATA[I find that by asking and answering questions, it is a great way to get to know someone. A little about me...I am a SWF 49 yo, 5'7", blonde, blue eyes and I have 2 teenage boys that live with me. I am looking for a ltr with a S-D-WM between the ages of 45-54 within 25 miles of Cary who has a great sense of humor...a wonderful sense of himself. Honesty is extremely important..you will definitely get that with me....Please tell me a little about you and then take the time to answer my questions. I would love it if you would question me as well...see how creative you can be. Also, a pic would be nice. 1. Who are you closer to.... your Mom or Dad..or neither? 2. If you have a sense of humor (if you don't, please move on...I find a sense of humor extremely attractive), what kind of funny are you? 3. Tell me 4 adjectives that describe you. 4. If you got a flat tire on a major highway, would you: call AAA? fix it yourself? call a friend to help? 5. Favorite color? 6. What is your favorite game to play? 7. Where is your favorite vacation spot? Hope you find this fun and interesting...talk with you soon! B]]>

<![CDATA[Do you have a sarcastic sense of humor, see all things on the bright side, and appreciate art and nature and the energy of life? Do you stay up late, prefer books and conversations to television, and find yourself inspired by live music? Do you find yourself recycling, growing your own plants and otherwise giving care to our planet? Do you understand and respect the difference between spiritual and religous? Do you find yourself content in life yet unable to shake the feeling that there is someone out there who can complement your happiness? Are you single (as in not married or otherwise involved in a relationship)? Care to get to know a chubby (size 16/18, 5'8" tall) tattooed hippie chick with a flower in her hair and a smile on her face? ]]>

<![CDATA[Ok so generally I dont think this is best way to meet people via CL. HAHA But sometimes we do what we have to do. 28 swf in Wake Forest, I have a career, my own home, all that good independant stuff. I am a christian and I go to church. I am a laidback countrygirl is the best way to describe my personality and glamourous on the outside...lol hence my career. I am conservative and I stick to my beliefs and stand for what I believe in. Anywho, if any of this is catchy to ya email me. I do prefer guys older then me. I am wise beyond my yrs.]]>

<![CDATA[Greetings: I am a professional and intelligent SINGLE BLACK FEMALE who loves to laugh and have a great time. I enjoy music, concerts, live jazz, romantic excursions, dancing, movies, comedy, reading, museums, theater, fine dining, traveling, and most fun activities. I am honest, loyal, considerate, passionate, loving/affectionate, respectful, kind and caring woman. (I prefer a male companion who has the same qualities). I have yet to be blessed with kids, its ok I am fine with it. I don�t mind you if have kids - without the drama. To be very detailed about my expectations - I am interested in a �SINGLE� Confident BLACK MALE who is capable and mentally ready for a healthy, loving, respectful courtship, for the ultimate goal of establishing a meaningful long term relationship. A man who understands that communication is the key in order to share our feelings emotionally, physically and mentally is very important too me!!! Being mature, having a sense of direction and not playing games. A man who is attractive, confident, intelligent, creative, open-minded and adventurous. I am dependable trustworthy woman; l am interested in a male companion whose trust factor is credible. I will always trust you until the trust factor has been violated. Friendship, including mutual trust and respect is a requirement for me to be comfortable when involved in a sexual active relationship. I am a woman who will love you for who you are, not what you are, I am not interested with my feeling being tossed around like a basketball. It�s imperative that I make myself clear - I am very selective with whom I choose to associate with, as well as sharing me feelings with. I am not interested in a player and I do not have the time and I will not make the time for a thug. I am a huge fan of HONESTY and a great sense of humor! I am not looking for the "perfect man" but I am looking for a man that's perfect for me. I want a man who is 100% mentally and emotionally stable, loves his career, SEXY, smoke free, drug free, fun and easy to be with, creative, spontaneous, well liked by his friends and family and a best friend. I am looking for a healthy, interesting, exciting relationship that will hopefully lead to a life long friendship. Are you smart, employed, and consider yourself a great catch? I enjoy doing different things within reason and I feel extremely happy to be alive. I have so much to offer. I never have a difficult time finding dates, but I am tired of the routine dating scene. People never cease to amaze me, so AMAZE me. If you are interested and your qualifications meet my requirements please respond with a picture � No picture! I will not RESPOND. A Diva is a terrible woman to waste! ]]>

<![CDATA[ Hey this is Nikki and I am in search of good man that enjoys life, and can enjoy being With me..... I'm 20 and Im 5'7'' about 140 lbs and brown skin and brown eyes I am looking for someone different from ordinary... YOU MUST LOVE KIDS , because i have a son.... but if your cool with that then we're good... I'm looking or someone to build a loving and long term meaningful relationship with ... If you think that you can be that person and oyu wanna get to know me ..... then send me a message a pic and a number so we can chat... i dont im back and forth... I only have pics on my phone thats why.... I want someone who wants to get out and do stuff with me and with my KID... but also can enjoy staying at home alone and under each other.... Cool date ideas 101 Here are 25 cool date ideas. Women love it when men take charge once in a while and plan something fun. Taking your sweetie out is important no matter how long you�ve been together, but dinner and a movie loses its appeal after awhile. Peruse our selection of fun outings or get creative and think up your own. (Scroll down to post your own ideas...) 1."Camp out" in the back yard. Set up a tent, build a fire, roast marshmallows, etc. 2.Go indoor rock climbing 3.Visit a museum 4.Go canoeing at midnight 5.Go to a casino (but set a limit beforehand!) 6.When was the last time you went to the zoo? 7.Go to a toy store and each pick out a toy 8.Play mini golf 9.Get his and hers pedicures and facials 10.Go to the beach and build a sandcastle 11.Go sledding 12.Make an appointment for a tarot card or palm reading 13.Cater a fancy meal at home 14.Make something together like decorated cookies 15.Go to the pet store and buy a gold fish 16.Find a big field or go to the beach and gaze at the stars 17.See what�s happening at your local college or university, concerts, plays, lectures, etc. 18.Go to an opening reception of an art gallery 19.Go to a midnight movie 20.Try an ethnic restaurant you�re not familiar with 21.Go to an auction 22.Take a hot air balloon ride 23.Go to a contra dance. Contra dance is a partner dance similar to square dance and lessons are taught before the dance starts. Find them listed in the local paper. 24.Go to one restaurant for drinks and appetizers. Go a different one for dinner. Go to yet another one for dessert. Then go to a fourth one for dancing and drinks. 25.Order a picnic basket from a gourmet restaurant and go to the beach, park, mountains, etc.]]>

<![CDATA[I am looking for a submissive man that wishes to please a woman however she desires. This would initially be in the form of attention and pampering, but if you prove yourself worthy would also involve a sexual component. If you are interested, please include why you are worthy in your response.]]>

<![CDATA[I am a single white women, 43. I don't play games. I want a respectable Blackman between 30-45. Must have car, teeth(false OK), DL, a job, some intelligence, and his own life/friends, no drugs. I am not looking to be a caretaker or to have someone up my butt 24/7. I am looking for a longterm relationship, so don't try to play me. I don't mind kids, but I can't have anymore I'm done with that. I am very independent and strong minded so don't think u can tell me what to do or do it with, I'm very honest and straight forward. When I am in a relationship I all there, not halfway or for sometimes. Friends first other things will follow. Looking forward to meeting!!! Take Care!]]>

<![CDATA[Well, I've made a decision, I need a military man! I think it would be a good match. I'm indepedent enough to survive him being deployed but loyal enough that I wouldn't cheat on him while he was away. I LOVE a man in uniform and like masculine men who are tough. I'm going to give this a try, so if you're single and military send me some info. Age, race, marital status, where are you stationed, stuff like that and we'll see what happens.]]>

<![CDATA[Hello :) Thanks for reading my ad. I am a 19 year old white female. I have brown hair, green eyes, I am 5'9, and I guess I am what some would consider a bbw. I attend NC State University and I am a psychology major. I am somewhat of a geek. I love to read, I like museums and plays, I like some video games, and I wear glasses, but don't worry I know how to have fun as well. I occasionally go to clubs to go dancing, I love all types of music and I also enjoy most movies. I almost always have a smile on my face and I love to make people laugh, I guess you could say I am a big goofball and I am playful by nature :) Rest assured though I do have a serious side and I love deep conversations about anything and everything. I think you can tell a lot about a person if you get them engaged into a deep conversation, such as the things they're passionate about, how they think and you can also get a good measure of their intelligence. I am an animal lover and I love going to zoos and aquariums. I also intend to do some traveling in my future, Africa is currently the first place on my list of places to go. I want to travel across the entire continent and experience the amazing wildlife as well as the varying cultures. Even though I am somewhat of a geek I also love sports. I grew up playing softball, basketball, and soccer and I am still a big fan of all of them as well as football and baseball. I like to go to the occasional game and to catch a game on TV( brownie points if you can guess my favorite college football team :]) I am also a very independent woman, but don't let that fool you, I am also a hopeless romantic and I enjoy kind gestures just as much as any other girl. I am not the typical needy, materialistic, shallow, superficial teenager. I was in a relationship that lasted 4 years and I understand the work it takes to make a relationship last and also what the truly important things are. But that relationship ended awhile ago and I am ready to start dating again. I would much rather have my guy do something that actually required thought and cost him no money than for him to go out and buy me something. I appreciate the thought put into things more than the cost. I also understand that people need their space and I wont freak out if you want to go out with your boys or just need some time to yourself. I understand that looks fade and to be honest they're really of no importance to me, granted the attraction has to be there but I'm not looking for perfection by any means. I just want a sweet guy who is ready for a relationship, please don't reply if you think you are ready only to decide a few weeks into something that you aren't ready. I'm not looking to jump right into a relationship and I would like to be friends first but a relationship is where I would eventually like to be headed. I want a good guy who will treat me with respect and who is more interested in whats inside my heart than inside my pants. I agree that sex is an important part of a relationship, but only once the relationship has reached a certain point. I am a Christian and I would like to meet another Christian guy, but if you are Atheist or Agnostic please don't be put off, I would never judge you or push my believes onto you. Religion is not something that is a deal breaker to me. also if you have a problem with Gay people then please do not respond as many of my friends are gay. I absolutely love to cuddle and I hope you do too :) I don't care what race you are or weight as long as you're healthy, but I do ask that you be at least my height or taller. Also please don't be over 25 and include your age in your response please, I'm just not interested in guys who are a lot older than I am, no offense. Also please put your favorite color in the subject line so that I know you're real and please don't waste my time with one line emails. I took the time to type this up for you and I would appreciate at least a little bit of information about you. And if you could attach a picture of yourself within the first few emails that would be great too. I will send a picture of myself once I see one of you. Sorry this is so long. I hope to hear from you soon :) sorry to post this again but it got flagged for some reason. ]]>

<![CDATA[SBF looking to meet new people. Age, race not important. ]]>

<![CDATA[I'm seeking a tall black man for LTR possibly. YOU: Please be 25-32 taller then 5'10" under the weight of 230 preferred 190-215 Light skinned is a plus or mixed races. Be serious and single. Love kids PLEASE PLEASE be ATTRACTIVE!!! Have your own place, job and vehicle! PLEASE BE FROM AMERICA (BORN AND RAISED)!!!!! HAVE A PICTURE!! ME: I'm white Mother and I am very proud of it! I'm a BBW (size 18) Divorced There's more feel free to ask! ]]>

<![CDATA[i am 5'10, brown-skinned, dark shoulder length hair (real), pretty face, porportionate voluptuous body (bbw) single mother of 3 (youngest is 5) so you MUST like kids i am in search of a working man ready for a steady relationship. I would like to date for a while and if we think it can grow, i would like to make it exclusive and go from there. i want to be an RN, married and buy a home within the next 3 years. i dont have a particular physical type that i fall for but being CLEAN is a must. If the attraction is there...great, if not, at least we tried and perhaps can be friends. And it is important that you know up front I am a lady in the street and anything but that in the bedroom. You can email me once with a pic and your number. I will text u and send my pic and we will talk from there. Not into email and texting too much *********** put 'real man' in subject line************* ]]>

<![CDATA[ I know you can't predict when you will meet the right person who will turn into a long-term relationship, but I'm looking and hoping it will turn out that way! If not, you can never have too many friends. I am a white female, affectionate, tall, attractive, a few extra pounds but not BBW, fun-loving, outgoing. I have children who live with me and are with their father part of the time. I would like to meet someone taller than me (5"9), who is down to Earth, fun, affectionate and talkative. I am Methodist but respect everyone's religious beliefs or non-beliefs. I'm a happy person with a positive outlook most of the time. I'm hoping to find someone who would like to date long-term monogamously (if it works out that way) but not interested in FWB situations, not interested in short flings, not interested in hook-ups, and not looking to get married anytime soon. I am independent enough to be happy on my own but really enjoy being in a relationship. I like to have lots of freedom though and want whoever I date to have hobbies and interests other than me, because I want us to both still go and do things with our friends. I am not controlling and don't want to be controlled. I just want a loving, trusting, fun, passionate, long-term relationship. If you are looking for the same thing, write and tell me about yourself. We may be a good match or we may not. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. I will be happy to share pictures once I hear from you.]]>

<![CDATA[God's greatest commandment is love. To make it short and simple, that's what I'm looking for. I'm a college student with friends, but I'm still missing that special someone to share new adventures with- to open the next chapter of my life. Usually I can be kind of shy at first, but I feel this is a step I need to take. I enjoy reading, writing, watching movies, hiking with friends, cooking/baking, and traveling-I'm open to most things as long as it's with friends. I love meeting new people, and I hope to make some connections here, so feel free to send a message my way. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a SWF, smart, sexy, and amazing. Looking for a SBM that can write a message without using texting short cuts. I want to find a man that can stimulate my mind. Absolutely not into married men, games, or BS so please don't contact me if that applies to you. I am well worth the effort it is going to take you to show me you are worthy. Interested? Post "high IQ" in the subject line. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hopefully to my future man, I am a single, sexy, attractive white bbw who is in search of a single, sexy, attractive black male for a ltr only! I am not on here to play games, or have my heart pulled out and stomped, nor do I want to be lied to, cheated on or have games played with me! I am only on here looking for a REAL and true black male that's SERIOUSLY looking for a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP that should possibly turn into marriage. I'm old enough that I don't want to waste anymore time weeding out the men that just want some ass! Hell, I love sex just like the next person, but I'm NOT trying to screw every damn man that comes along offering it or wanting it! I am a single mom of teenage girls, and I'm NOT LOOKING to have anymore kids EVER so if you are it's NOT going to be with me!I'm looking for a man who is financially stable, intelligent, sexy, attractive, hard-working and definitely is READY TO BE IN A SERIOUS AND COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP! I love movies, bowling, cooking out on the grill, sports, and spending real quality time with my man. I'm affectionate(very) and I love to kiss, I'm attentive, and love attention as well. I do have a high sex drive, and expect you to as well but I WON'T be sleeping with you until I get to know you! I stand 5'8', gorgeous blue eyes, sexy full lips, wide hips, big chest, wide butt, belly and small feet and hands. I don't smoke, nor do I do drugs, am disease free and will stay that way! I prefer a man that has either a bald head, or close cut but if you have hair, dreads, or it's braided it has to look nice! I want a man that is taller than me, meaning at least my height or taller, is older than 30 but NOT older than 45, looks either like a football or basketball player that isn't fat, cuz' I'm a big woman and one of us being big is enough!I don't like a man to be real thin, some meat on your bones is better for me just not real thin or fat! I am a good woman, honest, loyal, dependable, own car and place and you need to have the same. I don't want a man that can't take care of himself, someone that can bring something to the table is a MUST! I have 2 kids, I'm not raising a man! Anyway, I hope you're out there somewhere! If so, please respond with pictures or I WON'T respond back. I WILL provide my picture with my response! I don't want a man that is currently married or separated or living with a woman cuz' I won't be your to go to woman nor will I be in second place! I deserve a good man, and a good man deserves me! If you DON'T want a full figured woman, than pass me by, but if you do and want an ltr with a good woman please don't hesitate to respond! IF YOU AREN'T INTO BIG WOMEN, DO NOT REPLY! IF YOU DON'T SEND A PICTURE WITH YOUR RESPONSE, DO NOT REPLY, THANKS! ALSO, PLEASE DON'T RESPOND TO ME UNLESS YOU'VE READ MY ENTIRE AD AND ARE TRULY READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP AND HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF! NO BOOTY CALLS AND I'M NOT TRYING TO HANG OUT WITH YOU!]]>

<![CDATA[ Brilliant men make me hot! I am searching for a Physicist. Must be single. Disease free. No smoking. Send a picture. Needed now for hot love and also companionship. Apply within. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am so ready to meet a nice guy who is not afraid of commitment. I enjoy the simple things in life...outdoors, sporting events, concerts, parks, beach, spending time with my son, family and friends. I would like a man that has a sense of humor, a job, someone who has a child or children (just because you understand the importance of being with your child), and someone who has the ability to love after having your heart broken. Hope to hear from you soon!!]]>

<![CDATA[Well, I've made a decision; this is it. After 5 years of dating and disappointment I have about an ounce of faith in men and love. I'm posting on Criags List one last time to see what happens and regardless of the outcome after this I'm a permanent bachelorette. Wow, that makes you want to contact me huh? ;) Ok, I'm done with my spill. I'm a successful and independent woman who lives in Cary. I'm passionate about my job and LOVE to ride Harleys and read. I don't drink or smoke, don't do drugs and am divorced. I used to put everything I have into relationships and believed I would find Mr. Right but lately I haven't done that I'm sorry to say I've had a run of one night stands and friends with benefit type relationships. I'm not tired of that but I want more, so here I am, do what you will.]]>

<![CDATA[Okay, I know this sounds really bad, but I have had the worst luck with men and am wondering if its time to give up. I just can't seem to find a good man. I tend to believe that everyone deserves a chance but that isn't working out too well for me. So, what I am looking for is a good man, and it would really help if he had a car, job, and preferably lives away from his parents. age and race are not issues, so if you think you can show me that there are good men, or at least one good man, email me. Tell me about yourself and why you are different. I'll respond and tell you more about me. :) but here is a little, so you can know if I am even what you are looking for... I'm 21, white female, I'm a student. I love to have fun, smile, laugh, and would love to have someone to enjoy fun times with. I am very independent and therefore am not in need a of a man to take care of me, I do that on my own. I would just like to have someone to share time with, and I wouldn't object to the occasional spoiling ;). I will send you a picture when we communicate one on one. dont like posting stuff like that on here.. I was informed I need to ensure readers that I am real, so, sadly, duke beat carolina last night.... badly. ]]>

<![CDATA[I tried posting this a couple months ago, but nothing ever became of it. So I think I'll try once more. To be honest, I'm an awesome person. I don't believe I'm cocky, but I just think I have a personality that makes people feel comfortable around me. I'm usually very cheerful and all my friends think I'm hilarious. I don't think I know anyone who doesn't like me (and if they do, they're great at hiding it). However, when it comes to the opposite sex, there is a slight issue. Men always see me as "just a friend" or the "little sister" type. It was cute at first, but the charm has long since worn off. To get to the main point of this ramble, I want to meet a guy just as awesome as me. I've always said that I'm not a relationship type of girl, but I think I'm ready to try it out. I'll be honest; since coming to college, I've had my fair share of hookups, but I have realized that's not what I want. I want to meet someone who is interested in me for more than a couple days. What I'm looking for is someone new and exciting. Turn-ons include men who aren't afraid to make corny jokes or admit to having mancrushes. I'm also a fan of accents of any kind (100 bonus points if you have one) and proper grammar and capitalization. Knowing the differences among there, their, and they're and knowing how to use them is amazing with a capital A. I like slightly nerdy men who don't mind talking about the wonderful world of science. I'm not extremely particular about appearances, I'm not perfect and I'm not expecting you to be either. So I guess it's only fair to tell you about myself. As you may have read, I'm a 20 year old student at a wonderful, championship-winning (though not this year, sadly) university in the Triangle. I consider myself pretty age-appropriate (yeah, I party on the weekends) but still highly intelligent. I'm African-American and I've lived in NC my whole life. Thanks to anyone who is still reading. If you think we may have something in common or want to know more about me or just want to praise the awesomeness that is me, just send me an email. Anytime of the day... I love human interaction... ]]>

<![CDATA[HELLO CL I AM A YOUNG BLK WOMAN IN SEARCH OF A NICE, CARING, GENTLEMAN WITH MORALS. I AM LOOKING FOR A LTR SO PLEASE DONT EMAIL IF YOU'RE MARRIED OR IF YOUR NOT SERIOUS.THERE IS SO MUCH TO ME THAT I THINK YOU WOULD LOVE THAT I CANT EXPRESS IT ON CL SO IF YOU ARE SERIOUS AND YOU WANT TO GET TO KNOW THE REAL ME THEN BY ALL MEANS RESPOND:) HAVE A GOOD DAY! ]]>

<![CDATA[I am married and have children. I am not looking to leave my family- just looking for something extra in my life. Something non-stressful, intimate, and fun. Not looking to jump immediately into bed but definately want to get there. You don't have to be perfect as I am not either! I am a size 16. I do have a college education. Any other questions you have I would be happy to answer!]]>

<![CDATA[Okay, I know this sounds really bad, but I have had the worst luck with men and am wondering if its time to give up. I just can't seem to find a good man. I tend to believe that everyone deserves a chance but that isn't working out too well for me. So, what I am looking for is a good man, and it would really help if he had a car, job, and preferably lives away from his parents. age and race are not issues, so if you think you can show me that there are good men, or at least one good man, email me. Tell me about yourself and why you are different. I'll respond and tell you more about me. :) but here is a little, so you can know if I am even what you are looking for... I'm 21, white female, I'm a student. I love to have fun, smile, laugh, and would love to have someone to enjoy fun times with. I will send you a picture when we communicate one on one, i dont like posting stuff like that on here.. ]]>

<![CDATA[??if you care to know then im willing to tell-* my names MyA and i come once in a lifetime.hahha my eyess r dark brown i have natural black an brown hair, i hve a little bitt of DOMINICAN n me (my dad is jamican) ,i am the oldest but sumtimez hve mi baby momentz in my family im an virgo(yes da sweetest grrl yu will ever meet) so yes i will be turnN 20-yayyyy me --! im a mommy girl in my mommys world and my family means more to me then i could ever explain! im 5'9 **kinda taller than most!! ....im a cool laid back kind of person when i want to be, most of the time im either spending my days laughing, and smiling because i love every second of life, use to play basketball n my free time, and also shop and write poetry. i like to read books, . i luv to writN, am not a great cook, i use to like to party but im growing out of it, :-)) ..my favorite color is purple and black, but anything looks nice on me. my fav foods would be pizza, pasta, and steak with rice, fav drink is apple juice, sweet tea, and LOVE STARBUCKZ. fav candy is twix n skittles&&&.when it comes to dating, i prefer to take things slow, &&when i do catch feelings they kinda cum 10x hard. i dont really have a certain type of dude i date because i dont discriminate because i look for the beauty within, but i love tall dudez since am tall... i like a dude who has hiz head on right and is going down a road to success, someone who is truthful with respect and a nice smile thats not much to ask for and with that i will be happy with whoever he may be... alotta people has asked me have i ever been in love...well to be honest i dont know what love is and i dont want to find it, im waiting for love to find me. ive heard good and bad things about it but still i thin kfallN nluv is a great thing-cant wait till i falln nlove!! -mmm cnt really think of anything eles**beside this** am lookn 4 a friend:; sumbody dat i can chill wit hopefully n da futrue..** by da way i am a freshman n college> so i do hve a great head on mi shoulderz...__sign barbii out__]]>

<![CDATA[Hey there! I'm looking for a motivated man. A man who doesn't want to live with his parents forever. A man who wants to be educated. A man who wants to succeed in life. I like a sense of humor. I like romance. There is nothing like a gentlemen. I am very laid back. I work and taking a forced break from school. If you want to know more about me feel free to email me. Your pic gets mine. Don't email me if you do drugs I don't like drugs and yes weed is a drug. I am curvy. Hope to hear from you soon. Oh yea in the subject put here I am so I know you're real. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a 33 year old black female, 5'7" and 220 pound. Ilike to go out to dinner, cook, most anything out side, watch a good movie, cuddle, and just hang out. I am looking for a blck male that does the same or that can get me to try some new things. 30-40 and NO DRAMA. Kids are okay but NO BABAY MAMA DRAMA. If you think you are who I am looking for drop me a line. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am looking for a guy who is looking to be pampered, feel loved and appreciated for the things he does, wants to feel young again. I love a good time, enjoy great wine, travel, cooking, talking, and just being there for someone. If your wife doesn't give you what you need, then look no further. I want to make you a happier man. I love gifts. Serious Inquiries only, your pic gets mine. When replying please include: a pic (urs gets mine), your desires, and way to contact you (without it you won't get a response)]]>

<![CDATA[I'm divorced with no kids and 5'6". I love watching hockey and football and enjoy movies, cooking dinner and taking walks with my dog. I'm not looking for someone to "complete me", but I would like to continue my journey with a loving hand to hold. I find relationships with black men to be extremely intense. . . .it is what it is. If you're interested, please drop me a line.]]>

<![CDATA[SWF, 36, consider myself smart, attractive, fun and occasionally funny, very tied to varied responsibilities, would really like a date or two. Not looking for full time anything, but also not looking for nsa. A delicate balance between the two, based on mutual respect, calm and friendly conversation, and a sense of humor, (dreamy, I know) would be perfection. ]]>

<![CDATA[HELLO THERE MY B-DAY IS NEXT WEEK AND I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO GO OUT WITH SOMETIMES,MOVIES,DANCING,BOATING ,TO THE BEACH ,ON A BUSINESS TRIP,ON VACATION,DINNER,FAMILY GATHERING, OR JUST SIT AT HOME IF WE HIT IT OFF..THAN GIVE THIS BROWN SKIN WOMAN A EMAIL SEVERAL DAYS AHEAD NO LAST MINUTE. I JUST WANT TO MEET NEW PEOPLE JUST LIKE YOU. NO CRAZIES. ONLY FUN PEOPLE WHO ENJOY LIFE AND DO NOT MIND HANGING OUT WITH ME AS YOUR FRIEND. I LIKE MEXICANOS,HISPANICS,ASIANS,PUERTO RICANS,CAUCASINS,ETC. COLOR IS NOT IMPORTANT TO ME.IF YOU FEEL THE SAME WAY THAN COME ON LET US LIVE LIFE.NO DRAMA,NO KILLERS JUST A LOL PLEASE NO BABY MAMA DRAMA. NO GUYS UNDER 30.PLEASE ATTACH A PIC,PHONE NUMBER,IM OR PHONE NUMBER. I WILL BE WAITING. P.S A LITTLE DISCRIPTION OF MYSELF 5"2, 179 LBS CURVY SEXY CARAMEL COLOR SKIN AND CHESTNUT COLOR EYES MEDUIM LENGHT HAIR CLASSY SEXY(I AM MIXED WITH BLACK NATIVE AMERICAN AND WHITE )I HAVE FLAVOR BUT LOOK AFRICAN AMERICAN.LOL]]>

<![CDATA[Hello, I am a 46 year old white female that lives in Bunn. I am 5'6, have red hair and an average body type. I am looking for someone to be friends with and am very open to it turning into a LTR. I would love to meet a fellah that lives fairly close to me.(20 miles give or take). That would make it easy for us to sneak away and meet up with each other. I don't really mean sneak I guess...but I have a 13 year old son and he is always around so I would not leave him for extended periods of time. It would be REALLY cool if you had a son close to his age. I don't want to set any limits on the TYPE of guy I want because I could eliminate my possible soulmate that way so I am open to all ages and all races...however, there are a few things that are deal breakers for me. I AM NOT INTO: cigg smokers...people who are closed minded or prejudice toward others...cops...someone with drug/alcohol/mental/anger issues.... anyone that has a wife or girlfriend.... Liars.... someone that just wants to hook up....I think that might cover my deal breakers...lol I am just a sweet,honest, peace loving gal that has been out of the relationship/dating loop for YEARS. I have sooooo much love and passion to give. My heart is aching to find someone to share it with. Looking forward to hearing from my possible soulmate. P.S....PLEASE DO NOT send me any FRESH pictures or ask me to send you any. That is sooooooooooo NOT what I am about.]]>

<![CDATA[Such a beautiful morning Anyone interested in walking in the park good conversation...I hope Maybe lunch? SWF, HWP]]>

<![CDATA[I am in search of a good friend that will possible grow into something special. ME? Divorced, no kids, curvy and cute. YOU? Strong (in body and mind), smart and a good sense of humor. If you are ready for a beautiful black woman (inside and out) email me. Your picture gets mine! DJ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a young, single black female looking for a friend. Someone who doesn't have kids, no drugs and has great qualities. I am not too interested in looks but I do prefer my men tall, and between the ages 24-34 and must be african american. If you are looking for something casual as well and you match all the above criteria I would be interested in getting to know you! Oh and its me on the left side with my friend! Hope you like!]]>

<![CDATA[I am once again attempting to post on CL...For some reason I get flagged and not sure why? I am a young looking 45 year old. I have been described as the following: Sexy/opinionated/liberel/passionate/caring/motherly/hard working/stubborn/out spoken/completely unpredictable. Wow all that rolled up in a 5'4 frame. I live in Durham Part time and Florida part time with solid plans of living in Durham full time within the next 6-9 months once my company merge is complete. I have children that still live at home, do not drink or smoke. I am not into the bar scene, but I do enjoy country music and blues. Your picture will get mine.... No to eliminate spammers please put the following in the response line Coffee at Brueggers Talk to you soon]]>

<![CDATA[I am a single 35 year old black female. I am educated and professional. I have a job and my own place. I don't have kids and have never been married. I am beyond game playing. I am very open, honest and sincere, I look for these same qualities. I come from an "old school" up bringing grounded in nurturing and respect. I am an ISFJ personality. I am a thick girl, size 20. I am very caring and attentive. I like to play golf, travel, read, spend time with family and listen to music. I am looking for someone who is down with an interracial relationship, who is down to earth, caring, attentive, open, honest and drama free. I know I am specific in what I am looking for but I know what I am looking for and what works for me. If you respond put BFISOLTIR in your subject line so I can identify spam. Thank you for reading my ad.]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for a gentleman age 67-73. Enjoy gambling, movies, spending time with family, traveling, beaches, playing cards, and just overall having fun. Looking for companionship, if it's there more will happen naturally. Looking forward to hearing from you. Pictures a plus. ]]>

<![CDATA[Black female tired of all the drama and games. I prefer to just hang out at home and watch a movie, rather than hit the club scene. I enjoy reading, traveling, and watching films. Race does not matter, but no older than 35. Not looking for friends with benefits either. Also, as a disclamier, emails with the lines of just "what's up" or "holla at me" will not be responded to. I would like to get to know you and who you are. Please send a pic with your response. Also, this is not SPAM. After a cold spell, its finally going to be a beautiful week in NC with highs in the 60s.]]>

<![CDATA[Hello! So I'm putting it out there: I'm looking for an LTR. It's a bit cliche...but it's impossible to love someone until you truly love who you are. I've been at that point for a while and require that you be there as well. ABOUT ME: General: I'm 25, intelligent, energetic, optimistic, and pretty health conscious. I'm currently a grad student here in North Carolina. I have dark cocoa skin and natural hair (it's probably shoulder length but looks shorter). I'm pretty (not Halle Berry...but if I was would I really be on here :) I'm a curvaceous shorty (5'0) who weighs 133 lbs (trying to lose more but was 160 lbs at my peak). Personality: I'm compassionate, loyal, and respectful. If you're with me, you will be glad to have someone who is loving and will be there for you through the thick and thin. I'm very friendly, usually happy, and genuine. Plus I am a great communicator. Let's be real..things will not always be peachy keen. But I'm willing to let you know when I have an issue, talk things out (respectfully of course) so that we can come to a common solution. Interests: Exercise and dance! I have been doing Crossfit for a couple of months and love it! I've been dancing for 10 years now (was actually part of two dance troupes). My other serious interest: chocolate ice cream :) ABOUT YOU: My guy needs to have certain basic qualities. He needs to be single (if you're divorced that's fine), intelligent, CONFIDENT, respectful, emotionally healthy, compassionate, loyal, and a great communicator. He must also be physically fit (work out at least 3 times a week). In terms of looks, race is unimportant to me because we are all human. He must be attractive (this is your call to make lol), not obese (because again, you have to possess self love...taking care of your health is probably the best way to demonstrate that love), and be 22-34. Please don't respond if: 1) You bottle up your emotions and scream when you have an argument. 2) Are too hood...I tried to date men like you and sorry...you don't do it for me. 3) Can't hold down an intellectual conversation. To those who fit the bill, don't be shy...respond with a pic! I await your response.]]>

<![CDATA[First let me explain what I mean when when I say the title of the post. I am 40 and my best friend is 42 I like younger men she likes older men. We were talking one day and said....Hey we need a great father and son! So please don't take this the wrong way it is nothing weird. I was just curious if there were any father/ son's that were interested to chat and go from there. I didn't know where to post it since it could be platonic...casual ....LTR. So please take no offense to this post and if you are a father who likes younger women...and your a son who likes older women...respond and we will see where this goes. Have a wonderful weekend and enjoy the beautiful weather....HandB]]>

<![CDATA[What can I say? I am looking for someone to take it slow with. I am eighteen, and right now I am working full time. A lot of people would say I have a good sense of humor, and I must say, they are right;) I have been really hurt in the past, but I am hoping that not all guys are the same. Maybe? Possibly? If you have respect for women, please reply! Preferrably a guy between the age of 18-24. Now, about me? I have brown hair, green eyes (which people say are beautiful) I am 5'2", I am not a twig, but I am not fat, either. I have curves. Duh, I am a woman. Real woman have curves, have you heard that before? ;] No pic here, I don't want people I know to see me, but I will send you one should you reply! Questions? Hit me up!]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for something to do today. It is a beautiful day and I am home alone. Want to get together for a cup of coffee, a walk in the park or a game of miniture golf? Let me know and let's get together. Pictures are okay to send, but not required. Looking for friendships. A little about me. I am mid 30's, divorced and have 2 dogs. I love the outdoors, beach, water activities, and trying to workout. Tell me about you in your response. Take Care and have a wonderful day.]]>

<![CDATA[i feel stupid post to cl list but damn everyone i meet seems to be fake or a lier. i just want someone that i can connect with that understands how to treat a lady. im very affectionate and sweet as pie im faithful i treat my man right. but finding it hard to find a good man. about me well i dont party much i like to go out occasionally but just as happy staying home watching a movie or playing halo(yes im addicted to halo lol) im 5'2 average build short brown hair and green eyes. i also have a 4 month old daughter so you have to like kids. im not to picky on looks just as long as you have a good heart. age wise i am attracted to older men but no one over 35 please. your pick gets mine, you can can hit me up on yahoo at elaina27613.]]>

<![CDATA[At my age, you think I'd know what I want out of a relationship, but it seems that I just keep learning more of what I DON'T want. I thought I wanted "normal" but if that's what I've met in the past, then normal surely isn't what I seek. I thought I wanted someone who was "romantic" when all I got was horny. I wanted laid back, and all I found was lazy. I thought I wanted a gentleman, and a gentle man, one who would open doors for me, and have a soft touch and kind words. Well, you get the picture. Okay, so I don't want horny, lazy, creepy, grumpy, (it's starting to sound like the 7 dwarfs, isn't it?) In truth, I DO know what I want, and I just can't seem to find him. I want someone who's generally happy but not someone who's never had a bad day in his entire life and can't relate to someone who has had more than her share of them. I want someone who has a genuine sense of humor, who can laugh at himself and laugh WITH me, not AT me. I want someone who's kind and sensitive (and yes, it's okay to cry at sad movies if you're a guy). Someone who will make me a priority in their life and find time to spend with me. Someone who's not looking for a handout, a hangout, a free meal. I have a lot to offer the right person and I won't settle for less than someone that can make me happy. I am not into drinking, I don't smoke and don't go to clubs. I'm more of a nature loving person although I don't like the snow too much. Give me the beach or the mountains or a walk around the lake hand in hand, laughing, talking, just having a good time. About myself? I'm 52 years young. I am 5'5" and weigh 125 on a bad day. I have short, dyed brown hair and brown eyes. I am not a health nut by any stretch of the imagination. I like my ice cream and chocolate and brownies! I love to read and write and if there's no music playing in my house or candles lit somewhere, then something's wrong. My 3 children are all grown, the oldest is getting married next year and I don't want to attend her wedding alone! I love holding hands and hugging and I don't mind public displays of affection, within reason of course! If you think you might want someone like me to share your life with, take the time to write to me...more than a couple sentences. Please show me that you can spell and convey your thoughts clearly. Don't give your phone number without telling me about yourself, your likes and dislikes, deal breakers (I won't date a smoker or someone who drinks more than rarely.) If you're married, in an unhappy relationship, gay, into weird, kinky stuff, hear voices in your head, please do me a favor and don't reply! Hope to hear from someone who's serious about this. I'm too old to play those kinds of games. Life is short, don't waste my time or yours. Thanks.]]>

<![CDATA[Hello CL, I will try to keep this short and sweet. I am 26 yrs old, black hair, brown eyes, 145 lbs, 5'6''. I am mixed with chinese, native american and european. I am looking for someone who is sweet, smart, funny and sensitive. Big, dumb, jocks need not apply. I am a Sade lover and Lovers Live is my favorite album. If you do not know who Sade is or if you do not LOVE her music please click the X on the top right corner of your computer screen and just cancel yourself out. I am a romantic person but right now I am not looking for sex but friendship. I am not a "gold digger", crazy, or interested in bringing my baggage into a friendship and I don't want to hear about yours. My life is in order so I expect to hear from someone who has their stuff together as well. If you think you would like to chat casually and see if we click then send me an email. I do not smoke, drink, or do drugs of any kind so please DO NOT waste my time if you have any of those bad habits. I am looking for someone to connect with on a mental level and then see how it goes from there. I'm not looking to hook-up, if I were then I would have made a post in casual encounters. Men ages 25-30. Race not an issue. Looking for someone who is soulful and laidback. Your pic gets mine. Thanks!]]>

<![CDATA[I�m looking for something uncomplicated and drama-free. (This means that you're single, don't have any major baggage such as children or several divorces under your belt.) I�ve been single for a few months and I�m getting a little tired of going through the motions so I thought I�d see what else is out there. I�m not into the bar or club scene plus I lead a fairly busy life so this seems like an appropriate route for me. I�m looking for a down to earth guy that enjoys the same kind of things I do. I�m not a complicated person. When I have free time I like watching movies (horror movies are my fav), hanging around the apartment, grabbing some good food or cooking, taking road trips here and there, doing outdoors stuff like camping and hiking. I�m into all different types of guys and I�m not extremely picky although I�d prefer someone who has their shit together (i.e. a job/school, car, hobbies, friends, hygiene regime, etc) and someone who's decent to look at as physical attraction and chemistry are important for me. My age range would be 19 � 29 although preferably someone in their mid 20s. I�ve been through a lot, I�m mature for my age, and I�d prefer to find someone who�s on my level. Please only respond if you're seriously looking for someone and interested in getting to know me. I won't respond to your email if you only type a few words. Also, please include a picture and I will send one back. Thanks. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hello - I am 37 yo, short brown hair and blue eyes. I am separated and looking for someone to talk to and spend time and get to know. Please know I have 2 children that are extremely important to me. Looking for a new friend for now, more later. Hope to hear from you soon!]]>

<![CDATA[In the light of the year you reached out to me. As I left I heard whispers telling me I'd return but not wanting to because of the deep roots I've been growing. They grow slow but deep. In the dark I returned to experience what I knew was there and loved it and wanted it all but instead saw the truth. Only to reach that height after a trek I'm unsure I can take. AT your alter I placed my most sacred gift. Sitting there in the oldest temple, no longer standing, crumbled, one place left to put it. I feel a box closing in on me and I feel a chance and I feel what I know calling me back to the womb. Part of me has rebirthed already. And since you hold the power I gave you a chance to see nothing as I exalted your glory.]]>

<![CDATA[Hi, and thanks for checking out my ad. I tried this post once before and received alot of spam and requests for "friend with benefits"....pass me by please as I am interested in meeting someone for a LTR. Several friends have met there "mates" on this site (seriously), so I thought that I would give it a go! I am a professional, 5"3, in great shape (financially, physically and emotionally), love the outdoors (skiing, mountain biking and backpacking), movies, cooking, dining out and people with a positive outlook on life. If interested, and not some weirdo, I'd like to hear from you!]]>

<![CDATA[It does get better as we age.....:} I'm a DWF looking for my best friend/ lover. Some one to laugh with and simply to enjoy life. I'm looking for a committed long term relationship NOT a friends with benifits....however I do know that it takes time to develop. I am a small BBW so if that's an issue please pass me by. I love the simple things is life as well as kisses that last for days............ Smiles...... ]]>

<![CDATA[I haven't been out drinking in a while and all my gf's are busy tonight.. :( I'm thinking Jaeger bombs? lol I'm funny, smart and can carry on a great conversation about plenty of things. Don't be lame, ugly or old. I'm early 30's so I'm thinking late 20's early 30's for you. And please be funny or at least have something interesting to say!! I'm thinking around 9ish? Oh and I'm blonde blue and curvy. :)]]>

<![CDATA[Hi! My request is simple:: I would like a guy who is a little techy (or a lot techy) but not antisocial, who wouldn't mind an artistic and bubbly girl. A guy who beleives in God and that Christ died for him, but doesn't think it is a "sin" to listen to rock music. A guy who has curly hair would be great but that is not a requirement...but being romantic is. I am afraid I am not attracted to black men, I'm sorry. I am a single white female seeking a single white male. I am a very happy with my life and would like to find someone who is also content...I don't like complainers too much! I am currently working on losing some extra weight, I go to the gym about 5 days a week. Anyway, if you would like to know more about me please feel free to reply! Thanks :) *any x-rated emails/photos will be deleted, please be respectful* ]]>

<![CDATA[I have noticed something on this site. The good women finish dead last because all the men are either out for sex, otherwise taken, or are just plain crazy. I am hoping that in some spark of insanity there is a man out there that doesn't fall into one of these three categories. I am a kindhearted good looking Big Beautiful Woman. I have a small child who is my world but in that world there needs to be an adult for conversations and companionship. I am not and I repeat Not looking to hop into bed and get the sex part over with. That is something that takes time to build. I am looking for long term someone that if all works out right I can spend the next fifty years of my life with. I ask for honesty, respect, faithfulness and compassion and give that and more in return. Do not be an alcoholic, drug head, or a criminal. I don't need any of that in my life.]]>

<![CDATA[Attractive swf looking for a singe (not married) Caucasian (not anything but white) sorry.. it's my preference and I don't want you to waste your time emailing me or waste my time reading your email. Must be attractive.. decent shape..prefer men that take care of their bodies.. I am not skinny but do work out.. I have a great job, own place, own car.. 35+ I am safe, sane and looking to date ... and see what happens.. I am open to a serious relationship if it happens.. I will NOT respond unless you send a current face photo.. if you are not able to send one, because the file is too large.. please let me know and I will give you my email address.. Please send a small note about yourself and I will reciprocate with a current photo and more info about myself.. This is a serious post.. not looking for a one night stand.. looking for something more.. ]]>

<![CDATA[Well I goin to UTA..its awesome...i grew up in a very small town so i have a lot of respect for others and my famiy is numero uno..they are who is always there for you..i NEED someone that feels the same..i want someone who is a gentlemen...if ur not nice to me u get the boot really fast...open doors is a must...i love the old fashion find of guy and so does my family...gotta love to laugh...its a must in my life..and i tend to have a thing for country guys...like fishin (always fun)..gotta love four wheelers they are awesome...and the small stuff most country ppl do lol....well thats all i can think of at this time.. ]]>