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<![CDATA[I have been on a quest most of my adult life to find another man who shares my "secret" and who can totally relate to where I'm coming from. I've almost given up hope in believing he exists. Is there anyone out there who will read my words and know exactly what I'm referring to? Please write to me if you are out there. I am a single white man who would love to find another man who shares my set of circumstances or at best can totally relate to them. I grew up in a Christian family and have always been a regular church attender. I still attend regularly and most of my friends and family members are Christians. I, unfortunately, have a proclivity for men. Every thing that I've ever been taught says that men aren't supposed to have relationships of a sexual or romantic nature with other men. Please understand. If I'm being completely honest here, I would say that I believe that to be true. However, that doesn't change the fact that I'm still attracted to men. I love my friends and family very much and will take this secret to my grave rather than risk hurting them. And they would be hurt, especially my parents. I live a facade pretending to be exclusively attracted to females when in reality it is male company that I desire..........which brings me to the purpose of my post. I will NEVER "come out" and am not looking for someone who expects or demands that I do. I just want to find someone who can relate to me and fully understand why that choice is not an option for me. And truth be known, I don't want it to an option for me. My desire for men is not something I'm proud of but rather a source of great shame in my life. If I could choose, I would be totally straight. I can't possibly be the only man in the world who experiences this set of circumstances. So what am I looking for? A true committed relationship is probably not in the cards for me. I've never had a real relationship with a man in my life and at this age my history suggests that that's not a likely scenario for me. What I would like though is to find someone who understands how I feel inside and understands why I can't be in a committed relationship. I would like to find someone who also CAN'T commit to a true relationship due to a similar set of life circumstances. It's not an issue of will or won't but can't. I've got a lot of passion inside me that I'd love to share with someone. We could get together once or twice a month or so and really be there for each other physically and emotionally. Then we go our separate ways. I realize that it's not the most ideal way to live, never really ever giving your heart away but for now it's the best I can offer. Is there anyone who can relate to me? I hope this doesn't sound shallow but physical attraction is definitely an issue for me as I'm sure it is for most guys. If we don't share a mutual attraction for one another, how could it ever work? I know we each have our on tastes and flavors so while I'm describing my dream lover I'll go ahead and detail his physical attributes as well. I prefer guys in the 32 - 42 age range. I like a guy who takes care of himself. Someone who frequents a gym and eats moderately could be a potential candidate. I am 6'1" and like guys who are at least 5'10" or taller. I'm not into overweight or beefy guys. I like the tall, lean body type. Masculinity and cleanliness are musts! I like someone who is sensitive but not easily offended. I always prefer to hear and to tell the truth so can't handle someone who is too insecure. I'm definitely not prejudiced but am only attracted to white men. I like guys who are clever and bright. I like guys with positive attitudes and sexy eyes. I work out regularly and am reasonably fit. I would expect the same. I like hairy or smooth guys or anywhere in between. I love a guy with a good sense of humor. Passion turns me on. I love making out and cuddling in bed after a hot session. I could go on and on with my preferences but my preferences are varied so I'm kind of flexible. I just KNOW what I don't want. So, are you out there guy? Are you like me and really need a connection with someone but can't have the strings that go along with it? I guess you could say I'm looking for a part time lover. Let's meet each other's desires and live our separate lives. I'm sure this is an odd posting especially here on Craigslist but it's all me and my dysfunctional ways. Do you exist? I guess I'll find out.]]>

<![CDATA[Summer is almost here will you be looking for that new summer remance this summer? Down to earth guy,romanitc,stable,has his own house,and CAR. Something missing from the picture some one by side who has the same and wants some one to enjoy life together. If you enjoy travel to places like Ft Lauderdale and other destanations or a weekend trip to the beach would be great now. I am looking for some one between 27-40 who has it all together and tired of sitting at home every weekend and wishing there was some one out there for them. I was listening to this new song by Lady Antebellum I need you now, if this song catches you dreaming something like that then I want to hear from you. I am a while male,five nine,one sixity five,dark short hair,green eyes,great bod,works out. Not into on going emails looking for serious ones out there. Weekend is here let's dance the night away or have a glass of wine or two. Have pictures to trade only if you have some in return. You�re a good looking, masculine guy as well, comfortable in your own skin, confident without being cocky, healthy (ddf) and fit across the board, personable, intelligent, laid-back and adventurous. You likely enjoy camping and hiking, too, along with road trips, a cold imported beer, Australian wine, dogs, movies, restaurants, grilling, a wrap-around porch, mountain visits, time at the coast, getting lost on purpose, and finding your way home. You�re thoughtful, romantic, and passionate even if that side of you is hidden just a bit. You love to kiss, hold, touch, connect and be present with someone who matters. This is who I am. This is who you are. Here�s hoping you find your way to me. My thanks to anyone who makes the time to respond, even recognizing that there may not be a connection, even from the get-go. If you do choose to respond, please offer some details about yourself, including what you�re looking for, as well as a one or more photos. Stats are good too. Thanks�and best wishes. ]]>

<![CDATA[Salt for your meat, and cinnamon sweet And the rum is for all your good vices SEXY lady in rtp seeks a gentleman that likes his ladies in stockings and short skirts. respond with a letter and only the word "cinnamon" in the subject line of your email to me. we can meet this weekend if you are in town. ]]>

<![CDATA[Have you been bad and need to be punished? You must be willing to disrobe completely, and confess every detail of your indiscretion to me. If I feel you are sincere and have told the truth, I will put you over my lap and spank you. You will feel better. Repeat offenders are welcome.]]>

<![CDATA[Professional, kind, caring, guy next door type seeks ltr with two women. Dancing, live music, conversation and long walks, the beach would all be better with some playmates! Please send some info about yourself and a pic or two, and I will get back asap. Please be real! Just to let you know I'm real: Wake Forest Rd. is narrow from the belt line to Millbrook Rd. I always feel like I'm going to bump into another car. ]]>

<![CDATA[Despite media hype and what the majority thinks, I think an intelligent, social, and funny black man is the sexiest thing on this Earth! I'm a professional in the area looking for a black man (only) thats well put together. No, I dont expect perfection but goal oriented while still having a great sense of humor goes a long way with me. I'm also a fan of someone who can carry a good conversation and assertive to an extent. Me: Blk, in shape, 26yo, 5'9", goal oriented, a bttm if it comes to that, and enjoys a wide list of activities. I am always up for trying something new as well. If you sound like we could be a good match for hanging out, dating, and passion in the bedroom... please give me a buzz. I'm tired of guys thinking i'm only into white dudes because I dont speak slang. Hope you are too. ]]>

<![CDATA[I guess this is sort of a cross between miscellaneous romance and casual encounters. We'll see what happens. You know, it's pretty easy to find someone on here to come over for sex,...either a quick blow and go or something longer and more intense...And lord knows that works for me. But sometimes it would be nice to find someone that after that initial suck, fuck, and cum would cuddle a while... maybe head out to get a bite to eat...then come home and crawl back in bed for the night..Sure there would likely be a few during the night wake up calls.....but every time we'd crawl back under the covers and fall asleep in each others arms. What do you think? Friday and Saturday nights are best for me since I get up at an ungodly hour during the week for work. 5'11" 200 attractive enough...total top/oral... love to kiss and fiddle with your nipples a while...6 uncut.... very passionate... I know this doesn't work for everyone but if you're interested drop me a note and a pic... and we'll go from there. ]]>

<![CDATA[Im on this section, because the guys on here are much more levelheaded than the dreaded "casual encounters" section Looking to spend an afternoon lunch or catch a movie, with another cool guy. No stress, no drama, no drgus. please. Im not hoping we fall madly in love, and passionately kiss in the open realizing that we are perfectly made for one another and that every ounce of our own lives previously were lived in total vain, really, I just wanna get a carmel latte, or maybe a passionfruit tea w/lemonade and enjoy an afternoon talking to a legit guy who maybe doesn't wear eyeliner. too much to ask? ]]>

<![CDATA[Good Morning ladies , I am an attractive male going thru a seperation . I am looking for a female who is in the same situation or just needs some one to talk too Lets get together for a cup and air out on one another and see what happens from there .Please be sain , no drama , no fatal attractions either . Hope to hear from you soon ]]>

<![CDATA[I would like to meet a nice lady that is interested in having an ongoing Adult Breast Feeding relationship with someone. Someone that enjoys a good conversation as well as sharing the sensuous side of breast feeding. I am polite, educated, well spoken, and work in a professional environment. I would say that I am easy going, have an out-going personality as well as a sense of humor. I am 42, 5'10", and height/weight proportional. I am a real person. It is currently 71 degrees and partly cloudy at the RDU airport. ]]>

<![CDATA[Professional, clean, caucasian couple seeks attractive female playmate for fun and maybe LTR. Send us some info and tell us about yourself and what you're looking for. Please be real. We live in Raleigh and to prove it we can tell you there's no right turn allowed on red at the Crabtree exit off the beltline (outer loop) Your pic gets ours. We look forward to talking to you.]]>

<![CDATA[I am looking for a pregnant woman that will allow me to drink her breast milk from her. Nothing more really. can compensate for the milk as well.]]>

<![CDATA[I am a married white male, 29, seeking a female for a gf situation. Intimate times, lunches, etc. It's kind of hard to explain really. Not looking to change my situation at home. I am just tired of being on the other side of it all the time so thought I would take the initiative to put myself on this side of it. Prefer someone professional, attractive, clean, honest, and able to understand my situation and be OK with it. Something ongoing, not just a one time thing, thats not what im looking for. Would prefer someone between 29-55. Anyway, if you think you might want something like this, please email a pic and a little about yourself, emails without pics will just be deleted.]]>

<![CDATA[I hope that I am near the person my pup thinks I am... I go out for a run, I come home and you would think I have been gone for a week... I am an average guy, 6/5, 190lbs. Fit, stable, honest, blunt... (Does this make me look fat? Why yes it does...) I am sincere, passionate, not into the gay scene, but very comfortable with who I am. I enjoy running, playing golf, camping, backpacking, cooking, good food, good wine good friends and of curse my pup. I am just as content to stay home for a quiet evening as to go out on the town. Not looking for Mr. Right, but looking for Mr. Igotmycraptogether... We all have hang-ups, the key is to not get hung up.... We all have out types.... Seeking someone 28-40, white, average/fit, masculine (within reason), stable, knows who they are and are to a point in life where they are able to share a portion of their life and become a partner... You cannot force love or chemistry, so let start with coffee or dinner and go from there... Be well... ]]>

<![CDATA[Looking to have a great day in with the girls???? I have the idea for you. I'm a pure romance consultant ready to show a group of ladies a great time and it's all free of charge!!!! I host parties for SOON 2 BE BRIDES, Birthday's, and just because.... For more details contact me jenisemckoy.pureromance.com !!!!!Hope to hear from you soon!]]>

<![CDATA[I'm a GWM, early 40's, slim, healthy, handsome, who is lacking in one area of my life that seems to be hard to overcome....a relationship with a guy who is looking for a relationship where we have mutural interest and attraction for each other. I am looking for a man in his mid 20's to early 50's who is white, hispanic or asian where we have a mutual interest and attraction for each other. I am a guy that can appreciate doing simple things such as movies, sponteneous trips to the mountains and beaches, nice walks on the greenways, amusement parks, traveling, flea markets,dinning out, and the list go's on. I have just received my passport so I would be interested in putting that to use! As long as we are enhancing each others life I can be totally content! If anal sex is a compotent of your sexual need then I would consider myself the top. Outside of the anal role I believe each should be respectful of each others interest in love making. I will be glad to share of my picture with you and would appreciate on in return. If what I have said strikes your interest please respond and we can go from there. Look forward in hearing from you! ]]>

<![CDATA[White handsome male, early 40's, told I look younger, brown hair and eyes, 5'11", 34" waist, 170 #'s, smooth chest and body that tans very well in the summer. Looking for someone who loves to cuddle and kiss where there is mutual attraction. I am normally drawn to guys around my age or younger and hwp. I have some pictures that I would share if what I have shared catches your eyes. I would appreciate seeing your picture (s) too. Hope to hear from you and to be able to share some special moments with spring is in the air!]]>

<![CDATA[I am a submissive that recently purchased a real locking chastity device and am hoping to meet a real person in the area that shares this interest. So you know I am real it's Sunday, nice sunny day.]]>

<![CDATA[It seems as though a lot of couples are curious about cuckolding. It also seems that everyone has a different take on the lifestyle. I would absolutely love to find a couple to explore this with, but to avoid any confusion as to what my own personal view of the cuckold lifestyle might be, let me share a few thoughts. While I'm at it, I would also be interested in talking to a woman who was married or involved who might be thinking of approaching her significant other about trying this out. Now, on to my personal thoughts about cuckolding. 1) This is way more than just a 3some. I don't want the husband to feel as though he's the center of activity. His involvement will be at our (her's and mine) discretion. 2) This isn't just a way for you to watch. If you're just into voyeurism/exhibitionism, this isn't for you. I might want to enjoy the wife on my own at times. Maybe you'll get to watch, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll get to listen, maybe you won't. I'll tell you this much... if I know how really want to watch, I'd thoroughly enjoy denying you that privilege. And yes, it would be a privilege. 3) If you're a bi guy and are using this as a trick to just suck me, it's not going to work. I'll say it like this. I'm not opposed to letting a cuck suck me. Actually, there are times I might quite enjoy it. But I've talked to too many men who claim to be cuckolds who really just want to explore their bi side. As I said above, if I know how much you want to do this, I'll enjoy denying you the right. 4) The most important comes last... cuckolding is about your wife or girlfriend having a blast! I think this is often overlooked. Sure, I understand how relationships work and that men wouldn't agree to enter a cuckold relationship if they didn't think it would meet their own needs. But, in my eyes at least, the need for the cuckold should be in making sure his wife/gf and bull are completely content... at his expense. I can please a woman, both mentally and physically. I can also fulfill your needs as well, assuming you're truly selfless in terms of serving as a cuckold as I've outlined above. I realize that a lot of my text above has centered on the cuckold and not his lovely wife. Well, that's because unfortunately it's usually the guys who screw things up. I think the majority of women who are into this are quite happy in being able to fool around and have fun. Even if their hubby just wants to watch, they are OK with that because they are getting what they want. Maybe I'm being a bit greedy in asking for a bit more. It's OK. I can live with that. And I'm sure when I find the right couple to explore with, they'll be thankful for it too. ]]>

<![CDATA[me: experienced fit submissive seeking local Domme to serve you: experienced Domme seeking submissive. Have a smaller body type. it sounds easy but I can't seem to meet anyone locally. Ive been to local groups and on the websites. If you are out there please respond.]]>

<![CDATA[We are a married white couple looking for a girly and sexy BBW to become our friend and lover. We are not looking for just a hook up. We are very comfortable with this idea, and we are both loving and caring people. We prefer our own race and close to our age (30-40). She is very sexy, girly, beautiful and a size 18. He is nice looking, trim and well groomed. Again, this is for something meaningful and real. Please let us know if you are interested. We would love to chat with you. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hey there I just move to the area from Pensacola Florida. I lived in Pensacola Florida for a good 4 years and decided to move to Raleigh NC. I am looking to meet people for friends and possible LTR and no I am not looking for a one night stands if I get any e mails with asking it or nudity pic's it will just be deleted. Now about me I am 5"11 short brown hair blue eyes 160 non smoker,drinker,or at all in the drug scene. I am a kind of person that likes to go to the beach,walking,bycyling,music especialy country music,amusement parks,traveling,flea markets,thrift stores,dinning out,movies,DVD's and the list go's on. My ideal person that would like to meet someone laid back non JUDGEMENTAL beleive me we all go thru some tuff times in our life and if you want someone that has a million dollar home or expensive cars then we will be not a match but if your looking for a guy with a great personality and is a lot of fun then I am your man. If you think you like to get to know me more send me a e mail and a little bit about yourself and I will reply back. ]]>

<![CDATA[I moved here recently and looking for married desi woman or cpl for discreet fun for long term. Hope I will find some real woman or cpl in craigslist. Feel free to mail me what you want to know about me...glad to reply u back. type Holi in subject so that I know u r real.]]>

<![CDATA[I've been wanting to try this for awhile and would love to find a female that is also curious about it. Meeting somewhere as potential friends and chatting over coffee would be the start. And you taking my cup and adding your precious pee to it would be the highlight. Oh, and I'm very attractive, clean cut, great sense of humor. It would be great to end up with a special friend out of this. Please mention Starbucks in your reply so I know you're not a bot. Thanks!]]>

<![CDATA[I was 11 and put on a dress. It was wonderful. I have been wishing I was born a female. I am so jealous of females. I am hoping someone can teach me how to dress, do make up, etc. I have asked god several times over the years to turn me into a female. is anyone out there to help me?]]>

<![CDATA[I am wanting to find a female, couple, or lesbian couple that is looking to have a baby. I want to help someone conceive. I don't want a baby myself, but i do want to make sure that I have offspring out there somewhere. I am professional and work hard. I m completely respectful, would be very reliable, and would abide by any rules you might have whether it was not to be with anyone else during the time you were trying to conceive, not touching during intercourse, etc. If you were a couple, either straight or gay, the other could be present during the entire time. I am completely DD free, wish to stay that way. I can be quick or take my time, that would be left up to you. I wouldn't bother you after you were to get pregnant, I would only wish to know that you were. I would be willing to help during the pregnancy if desired for hospitol visits, prenatal vitemins etc, whatever it took to make sure the baby was healthy. I would not want to know who you are nor you to know who I am, this way there are no issues regarding the baby, support etc. We would simply just not know each other. Anyway, very serious about doing this for someone. If you are looking to conceive, have considered using a donor, and just want to have a baby, please email me with what you are looking for. I am 29. I am a white male, average size. I have blonde hair. I have been told I would have cute babies if I were to ever decide to have any. I do not know of any family problems whatsoever. I am completely sane, no mental issues in the family and educated professional.]]>

<![CDATA[Hello ladies, we are a interacial cpl, race umimportant, I'm Hawaiian, 5'1 160 nice round ass, clean shaven pussy, very attracted, My man is 5'11 slim build Blk , brown-skin and handsome, we looking a regular hook up , or maybe a one time event, depends on the chemistry, loooking some one to like to get down to business and and play no games, if you really want hook up, just put KEEP IT REAL in sub , so well know just what you really want to do. Please be DDD free, cause we are. Looking those shy girls, and real horney girls also girl on girl play while man watches too. Looking F maybe LT friendship, to hang out and play sometimes , ect. ]]>

<![CDATA[Trim, attractive, active, intelligent and spirited ww who enjoys life and all that it may offer seeks a trim, confident, expressive woman for friendship and anything else we choose to explore together. Whether it's travel near or far, wandering malls or flea markets, coffee/drinks/dinner, laid-back time, or interesting adventures, I'm ready for fun and appreciative of another lady who's looking for more out of life. ]]>

<![CDATA[ME: wm 6 slim 155 lbs healthy poz guy looking for fun maybe more. YOU: be at least 5 10 or shorter, hwp, up to 35 yo white or latin, vers, honest, poz or ok with being with a poz guy. Pics and stats in your FIRST email please, lets see what happens, could be fb, or get to more ltr]]>

<![CDATA[I'd like to play with a mother & daughter combination. (two different women, not one woman who is both a mother and a daughter)]]>

<![CDATA[5 years and still single. What gives, I'm cute, owns a home, great job and I'm the kindest person ever! I don't understand this.]]>

<![CDATA[This is an oil based massage. I use only 100% natural Sweet Almond Oil with vitamins A, E and C to repair, nourish and moisturize the skin. My oil is totally water dispersible, there is never any danger of staining your clothes. Added to the massage oil is pure essential oils that help heighten your sexual senses. I start by relaxing and connecting with you while erotically charged music plays softly in the background. You will find my breathing will become synchronized with yours. When you are ready, I will have you lie face down, naked. I will be sensually dressed and will start by quieting and focusing my mind while resting my hands on your upper and lower back. You will feel the positive charged energy pass between you. Then, I will perform a relaxing massage on the back, neck, legs, buttocks and feet. I use our basic therapeutic principles of relaxing massage. I always keeps my hands in contact with your body, never breaking the connection of energy passing between you. This is never rushed, taking my time, being rhythmic yet sensitive, and proceeding from long gliding strokes to deeper ones. After relaxing your back, neck, legs, buttocks and feet, I will have you turn over. I now massage the arms,hands and chest, paying very special attention to your breast and nipples. I will then massage your tummy and pelvis area just above the vulva. I then glide down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, I glide back up and slowly brush over the pubic area, teasing it, this teasing process, is drawn out by brushing the inner thighs, near the vagina, very lightly touching the pubic region. At this point the erotic energy is building, making it a natural time to start shifting the focus to the sex centers of your body. At this time I will start the sensuous part of your massage allowing the erotic energy to pass between you and I. The rest of your massage will now focus on your sex centers, with periodic sweeps up and down your body to spread, balance, energy, and integrate the sensations. I am very skilled in reading your energy and arousal levels, I will smoothly and gradually build up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual massage. There are many techniques I will use and of course it is up to you to communicate what feels best. I will also change from an oil to a water based lubricant. The sensual massage is never rushed. I am very knowledgable, I will use many different types of stimulation. While orgasm is not the only goal, should it happen lay back and enjoy. During G-Spot stimulation ejaculation sometimes occurs which is perfectly okay as well as welcomed. At the end of the massage the sheet/blanket combination will be folded up over you to provide a warm cocoon. This is a time of profound peace and contentment to let the amazing whole body experience languor while you relax and enjoy the sensuous music. If you are interested in more information or scheduling an appointment, please send me an email with your name and contact information and I will return your inquiry within 24 hours ]]>

<![CDATA[ . . . a really really good friend - we were both married, with kids - both bi - both professional, very discreet . . . We could email in the morning just to say HEY - see if the car got fixed - check on his mother's condition. etc . . . some days, meet for lunch - laugh, talk, just enjoy each other . . . talk and laugh some more - go on back to work - back to our other lives - now and then . . . on a given afternoon, we would meet - get naked and do whatever came naturally - some hott M2M fun - just a break for a while - again - - then, go back to life as we otherwise know it.... Then, his dad died suddenly and he had to leave the area to return to TN to continue the family business - which seemed more stable than the RTP job - probably a good choice. . . for the family . . . . . but - his leaving has left one helluva hole in my life and in his . . . just an email / cell thing now . . . . Our little deal went on for over two years . . . I sure do miss my friend . . . I wish him well . . . and hope to see him again, if that is possible....( if I can come up with an excuse to go to middle Tenn on business - LOL ) - maybe it was one of those bromance things - yeah, guess it was - whatever . . . I would like to find a new friend - a really good friend - one to talk to - get to know . . . in so many ways. . . . I am not looking for a blow-n-go thing - I want more than that . . . I want a secret friend.... one that " gets it " . . . I would like for him to be a fellow bi MWM, like me. Preferably, up to forty ( something ). HWP, please. Tell me a bit about yourself, should you choose to respond. Age and stats / location - that would a bare minimum - a good place to start. Tell me more, please - what are you looking for? what makes you tick ?? what gets you going ?? what makes you smile?? where do you like to go for lunch?? On a certain afternoon, what do you like - when we are alone ?? Me : I am forty nine. SixTwo. OneNinetyFive. I am clean,masc,discreet,safe,sane ( enough ) . Still reading? WOW - very cool. you know what to do if interested . . . I actually met my friend on here - may be asking too much to find another . . . we shall see. OK - your turn. See you soon, hopefully. { great kissers, take two steps forward } Crabtree area here.]]>

<![CDATA[Okay there is no way that this just can be me. I am horny all the time, from when I wake up until I go to bed. Think about men all day long at work, who has a nice package, a nice smile, a nice butt etc... Looking for a like minded man, who would like to get together and explore our over active labido. Not sure this the right forum, but giving it a shot. Would like to couple up or whatever but be free to keep exploring our interests in good looking dudes. Does this make any sense? Hope so. Hit me up with a pic and let's get this party started! Jack]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for an attractive, open minded woman to take care of a dis-abled man. Can clean, cook, provide companship. This would possibly lead to live-in. Would love to hear from you. Non-smokers please. Brier Creek area.]]>

<![CDATA[Greetings. I am a lifestyle submissive seeking a unique relationship with a dominant woman. I would always work hard to serve you and be faithfully committed to serving you in every way I can. As the dominant you would have the freedom to be involved with other men at any time. I know this lifestyle is not for everyone but if you are interested and what to chat please respond. Have nice day.]]>

<![CDATA[bored at work today, lets chat!!!!]]>

<![CDATA[Real male in the raleigh area looking for a real ts/cd to get to know and hopefully more....its real simple, ur pic gets mine and we can go from there...im five eleven, 165, very attractive and im not about games or bullshit...get at me if your real]]>

<![CDATA[I am seeking a long-term mate for a relationship built on trust, love, submission and authority. I lead with a soft hand, but you know your place. Your inner desires are to serve. We will walk thru life hand-in-hand, yet your heart knows you are answering to a powerful man. I am a successful, strong, white, fit, professional gentleman. I take care of you. You take care of me.]]>

<![CDATA[I am a real male in the raleigh area looking for a REAL ts/cd woman to get to know and hopefully more. First of all if you are into bullshit or playing games, no need to respond. I am very attractive and have a good personality. I assure you im not like these other fakes on CL. I have been looking for someone for a little while and everyone has been fake or about games....So if your arent, please send me a pic and ill send you mine, we can go from there.....THANKS TO ALL THE REAL PPL ON HERE]]>

<![CDATA[SEXY LOCAL TG LOOKING TO HAVE A ROMANTIC EVENIGN DATE hey there i am the real thing a true TG that is looking for a romantic date with a real guy. i prefer staright guys that want to meet in the real world and not play email tag, married is fine with me, but you will need a pictue. no picture no date. i am all girl and a full time tg that likes to date and meet interesting guys. I AM NOT A HOOKER. so if you are interested write to meet and we can meet in raleigh, i do not travel put the words "RREAL GUY FOR REAL GIRL" IN THE SUBJECT LINE OF YOUR FIRST EMAIL TO ME]]>

<![CDATA[I have been single for seven years because I have had the bad luck of meeting guys who are superficial, dishonest, liars, cheaters, manipulators, and con artists. Why is it so difficult these days to find someone who is real? Single, good looking (or so I've been told), Latino white masculine guy. 6'0", 185 lbs, black hair/brown eyes, non-smoker, DD free UB2 Looking for a nice guy in Raleigh to date and possibly pursue a long-term relationship if the chemistry is there. Hoping to find someone who is sincere, genuine, and who believes in the values of honesty, loyalty, and monogamy. Some of my interests include working out, swimming, water/snow skiing, music, movies, dining out, good conversation, world traveling, playing the piano, snuggling, and quiet romantic evenings at home. If my ad has peaked your interest, please send a face pic and I will do the same. ]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for bleep buddies for fun in the sack, conversation at least once a month. Any other joint activities beyond that is negotiable. Me - SE Asian guy, 40s, bottom. You - Cute, UNMARRIED top, around 35-55, HWP. Only replies with pic taken within the past year will get a response.]]>

<![CDATA[ok i dont know if this will work or not all i can do is hope some female will please help me the situation is my girlfriend of 11 years has left me and its so hard all i do is sit and wonder what shes doing and everything about her shes taken my to sons 6 and 8 i mean if you cant do this for me do it for them ok now i have a court date on thursday to testify that i saw her and her daughter fight and i want a female to go to court with me im just trying to make her feel bad for taking everything i love and mabe she will bring them home i used to pray for everything to be ok now i pray to be taken away i know thats crazy but im so lost and cant find my way please help email me for my number please ]]>

<![CDATA[hey girls wat up well i am looking someone too teach me how to have sex this will be my first time are u in i am white 5 ft 7 190 lbs 6 cut please help send a pictures]]>

<![CDATA[I am a MWM, professional, somewhat bored, with a little extra time on my hands at nights and on weekends. I am seeking a different kind of affair, namely, one of the cyber variety. Think about it, this is the ultimate in safe sex with no guilt! Our passion is limited only by our imaginations and our encounters can at times be romantic or at times pure lust, as our moods dictate. We can also just chat since I would hope you enjoy the "before" and "after" just as much as I do. I live in the Northeast so there is no way we can ever meet except as on-line lovers and friends. Age/looks are not important to me in this forum, except I do not chat with kids! If you are at all curious if you could enjoy this type of affair, or if you are looking for an outlet to express your sexuality, or just not sure, then by all means respond. If you want to know more, all you have to do is ask. I will respond to all real women who reply to this posting. In that regard please include the words "NC LOVER" in your subject line and I will know you are not looking to divert me to your "pay for play" site. Don't be shy..let's meet at Cafe Yahoo and get to know each other. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am looking for a female that is interested in letting me explore BDSM with her. If you enjoy pain (as light or as hard as you desire) and would be willing to let someone learn, explore, and be creative with you please do reply, send a photo as well if you are serious. I have been wanting to explore this for some time, just need to find the right woman now. Age/Race/Body type is not of any concern as long as you are clean dd free. ]]>

<![CDATA[Attractive male looking for a new friends for drinks and dinner. My picture is avalible when you send yours. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a white male who is interested in helping a couple, single woman, or lesbian cpl have a baby. I have helped a couple do this before and would like to do this again. I am very clean, professional, respectful. It would be strictly a sperm donation for you to conceive. I have been a donor before, in a very casual situation and it went well. So if you are interested in having a baby and looking for a guy to help you conceive, don't hesitate to send me an email.]]>

<![CDATA[looking for a guy to meet and hang out with must be std free and have a pic in the reply thanks! ]]>

<![CDATA[Too many times in my past, I have compromised in what I want and need in a woman. And each time I have compromised, I found myself wanting her to be something she was not. I don't think I'll find what I seek in the regular dating world, it would be solely by chance. And I've been married too many times to think that monogamous marriage is for me.....at least in the conventional, vanilla form. I simply do not do well in captivity. So I come here to find you. You are mature, in your 30's or older. Yes, those 20-something hard bodies are fun to look at (for both of us) but, frankly, they are not what I'm looking for. I need you to be confident and comfortable in who you are, reasonably attractive (please, not obese), intelligent, truely like yourself and accept that you are a total, unrepentant freak. I've been involved in alternative sexual lifestyles for much of my adult life. I have been involved with and remain interested in swinging, bdsm, group scenes and several other play styles that most would consider very kinky. An absolute slut behind closed doors would be ideal. I am a man that needs this from a woman and would protect and nuture you in order to have it. But above all else, I need for the "friendship" to be based on honest, open communication of what we want to experience. For me, I'm in my early 50's, dominant, very fit, vigorous, energetic, above average appearance, 5'10", 205lbs, light brown hair (full head of it) and blue eyes. While I am not perfect (and nor do you have to be), I am NOT your typical "middle aged man"!! I have no beer gut (yes, the pic is a recent photo), I am not a couch potato (I'm an avid swing dancer) and I have the experience and knowledge of a woman's sexuality to guide you through hours of intense erotic pleasure. Yes, I said hours! Unlike some of the self-absorbed young bucks that roam the world, I am not the type to be done in 10 minutes. Those men have given the rest of us a bad name!!! I WILL make your orgasms frequent, powerful and nasty. I will not try to change you, control you (except while tied in the dungeon :P) or manipulate you. I want your raw sexuality to be free to emerge. If you have found it difficult to find someone who will accept that aspect of you WITHOUT judging or criticizing...you and I need to introduce ourselves and meet for a get acquainted drink. No, I do not expect you to rush over to my place and fuck me simply from these words alone. I do hope that I will get a response from a woman who's longings are similar to my own.]]>

<![CDATA[If you're interested in a serious LTR ,love being the ultimate goal,and not just sex,then please don't hesitate to write me.I'm single,in shape,drama free.You be the same please.Sorry for the others,but I only date asians.I love your culture and your way of life.I'm waiting for you...]]>

<![CDATA[Single, good looking (or so I've been told), Latino white masculine guy. 6'0", 185 lbs, black hair/brown eyes, non-smoker, DD free UB2 Looking for a nice guy in Raleigh to date and possibly pursue a long-term relationship if the chemistry is there. Hoping to find someone who is sincere, genuine, and who believes in the values of honesty, loyalty, and monogamy. Some of my interests include working out, swimming, water/snow skiing, music, movies, dining out, world traveling, playing the piano, and quiet romantic evenings at home. If my ad has peaked your interest, please send a face pic and I will do the same. ]]>

<![CDATA[I'm single and have enjoyed it for a long time but I'm ready to find someone special. I'm an attractive and kind person, not an ultra flaming queen but not the butchest ever either. I'm 6 feet and 165 pounds with a good body and with a kind heart. I'm into all races and ages so, send some photos and I will return the favor and see where this goes. Looking forward to hearing from you]]>

<![CDATA[I am single for a year now and ready to find a special guy for dating and more if the chemistry is there. Physically I am 5'10", 170lb, hazel eyes, thinning/graying brown hair, trim, clean cut. Words to describe me: fun loving, adventurous, committed to fitness and good health, shy at first, sense of humor, honest, self reliant, sincere, thoughtful, successful, stable, professional, easy going, down to earth, discreet, monogamous, faithful, loyal, appreciate art and antiques, movies, theater, cooking in or dining out, nice wines, traveling, reading, likes to cuddle. I look forward to meeting a great guy for fun, romance, companionship, and more...]]>

<![CDATA[I do not like all of the lies and pretenders just trying to get information. If you want to know something about me just ask. If you are short you need to be young and cute. I like younger men but I have a fetish for tall men of any age. I also like well endowed men. But that is not a MUST. I am sort of short in great shape, smooth and still looking for a for real man who is looking to just get together anout once or so a week for some hot hard fucking. Let me ask you two questions? Are you a top? And do you like round bubble bootys? I got the booty. Are you the right top man?]]>

<![CDATA[ I am a SGWM who is looking for a nice guy to date and with whom possibly to pursue a long-term relationship. I am 6 feet tall and weigh 175 lbs. I have brown hair and blue eyes. I am professionally employed in a very rewarding career. I have some wonderful friends with whom I enjoy spending time dancing, hanging out, and dining out. I like to cook--but not really for myself. I like to read. I like movies--period pieces and romantic comedies. If you think that we might be a fit, then please take a chance and send me a message. I will respond with a picture of me and more information - Thanks !]]>

<![CDATA[ Mature wm 58 6ft 185 looking for mature black man for date, romance, passion. Music, books, film, sports, and hot passionate man2man are some of my interests Be hwp, easy going, down to earth, a top, and looking for good times Send pic and stats of course....will NOT go to another site to verify anything,,,no bots]]>

<![CDATA[Read this with images and music plus more love poems at. . . . raleigh-nc/Lifes-Love(dot)com Man Will Search Near And Far For Life's Love . . . . . In the many places man has traveled, he has become an adventurer and observer of the beauty to which life has to offer. Gods creations, the wonders the world may hold for each one of us. The beauty of such to fascinate ones mind, the beauty of the people. The love of a woman, their charm and loveliness that inspires a man's feelings and expressions. For he has great respect for a woman and he also sees that they are one of God's greatest creations. The woman of a mans dreams, a woman he would worship and adore. Her sexy eyes that would spellbind him, always drawing him near to her. She likes looking sexy just to keep his attention. No man is destined to be alone in this world. There is a desire for a woman to be his companion, friend, partner, in this journey of life. A woman that is kind, caring, sincere, faithful, loving, affectionate, passionate, with a joyful personality. In life they learn to work together to have a good relationship and a happy life. It is the little things in life that can mean a lot in a relationship. A man with deep feelings and emotions for the one woman in his life. A Romantic person with the one he loves. He enjoys being close, holding hands or arm and arm as we walk, even cuddling close. A love to have which gives a certain feeling from within when they are close together. To be near and close, giving a feeling of contentment. From time to time a kiss of affection. When he is with her he would feel like he is in haven on earth and at life's end, let it be in her arms of love. ============================================================ We all seek love and happiness with someone special to share our future with. . . . . An Age Difference is only a number Not An Issue . . . . Any age difference does not matter when a man and woman are deeply in love. Many ladies have been known to marry a much younger or older man and the same for a man. ============================================================ At a time in life man may remember his youth, the joy that it gave him, that certain feeling from the past and now wishes to have it again. He may even seek a younger woman from to fulfill his need, for there are many younger ladies that will seek a much older mature man for a more secure relationship. No matter what, it is a person�s personality that counts most of all. Time waits for No One.... Yesterday is Past History.... Tomorrow is a Mystery that may never come.... Today is Now and we wish to be forever. LifesLove: "a Love of Life, is to Love for Life" =================================== "What Makes A Relationship?" #1 Communication: This is very important in a relationship between a man and woman in many ways. The key factor here is how well they know one language or the other to communicate. #2 Common Interests: This is also important for a couple to have and they do not have to have all the same interest, just some. There is a wide range for having a common interests, one could have an interest in the type of work the other does. Then there is things they may like and enjoy together, like the same type of music, food, sports and so on. #3 Personality: A persons personality can be the main priority for many in a relationship. Their qualities, character and behavior. From being humorous to a more serious person. To also show and give respect to the other. This would apply to the type of language one uses. #4 Attraction: A person can be attracted to another in many different ways, one or more and how they may view them. This could be as to how mature and responsible the other one is or how they may show it. Then there is the attraction from within that of another. And there is the outer attraction that one can feel acceptable with. ]]>

<![CDATA[Just as the title says, 42WM Dom and 30WF bi sub seeking a bi sub for AMAZING times. Prefer you to be single/available so this can be more than just a casual friendship. Also prefer you to have few limits, and be HWP, DDF, attractive, and under 35. Reply with "Join You" in the title, and tell us about you.]]>

<![CDATA[Hi, I am new to this area. I am a pretty CD who is looking for other pretty CD's to hang with and maybe more. I am 5'6 135 lbs. I dress and go out alot, and tired of going alone. I am Bi and love to play with other cd's. I am slim, and I always look my best when I am dressed. Please don't reply if you like to wear panties, and look like a guy in a dress. I am very peticular and need to be with a very passable CD, or TS with the goods. Love make up, lingerie, dresses, heels, mini skirts. I ALWAYS GET HIT ON. I AM VERY PASSABLE, AND SEEK OTHER PASSABLE CD'S. NO GUYS PLEASE.]]>

<![CDATA[I am trying to find a woman that can (and likes) to put apples, oranges and maybe grapefruit in their pussy and than push it back out, just some food play and experimentation for the most part. If this is you and you'd like some company while you are playing, please email me, a pic would be great and put "fruit" in the subject :) ]]>

<![CDATA[The purpose of the Yoni Massage is to create a space for the woman to relax, and enter a state of high arousal and experience much pleasure from her Yoni. I experience the joy of being of service and witnessing a special moment. The goal is simply to pleasure and massage the Yoni/vagina. When orgasm occurs it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. You lie on your back with pillows under your head so you can look down at your genitals and up at me. A pillow, covered with a towel, is placed under your hips. Your legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and your genitals clearly exposed for the massage. I sit cross-legged between your legs. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body. Before contacting the body, we begin with deep, relaxed breathing. You should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. I gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to get you to relax and to prepare for touching the Yoni. I pour a small quantity of oil on the mound of the Yoni. Just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. I begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. I spend some time here and do not rush. I gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. I do the same thing to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. You can massage your own breasts or just relax and continue breathing deeply. It is helpful for us to look into each other's eyes as much as possible. You can tell me if the pressure, speed, depth, etc., needs to be increased or decreased. We should limit our speaking and focus on the pleasurable sensations. (It is my experience that too much talking gets one out of their feelings and diminishes the effects.) I gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. I gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. You will undoubtedly become very aroused but I will continue to encourage you to just relax and breathe and enjoy the sensations. Leaning forward, with your permission, I burrow my head between your thighs. Licking all around the mound and outer lips of the Yoni, using the whole flat side of my tongue (like licking an ice- cream). My mouth and tongue penetrate the inner walls lapping towards the clitoris. Where, upon arrival at this ��acred Temple? I worship and pay homage as I stimulate, suck, blow, nibble and drink from its fountain. Slowly and with great care, I insert the middle finger of my right hand into the Yoni (there is a reason for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra). I very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni/vagina with this finger. Taking my time, being gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. I vary the depth, speed and pressure. Remember, this is a massage and I am nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. With my palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, I move the middle finger in a "come here" gesture or crook back towards the palm. I will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, the sacred spot. You may feel as if you have to urinate or it may be painful or pleasurable. Again I vary the pressure, speed and pattern of movement. I move side to side, back and forth, and in circles with my middle finger. I can also insert the finger that's between the middle finger and pinky. Most women will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers. I will use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well. So, what is my left hand doing all this time? I can use it to massage the breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the woman. I continue massaging, trying different speeds, pressures and motions. We keep breathing and looking into each other's eyes. When you are ready to orgasm, keep breathing deeply, I will continue massaging. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called "riding the wave." Many women can learn how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni Massage and a very patient partner. I will keep massaging until you tell me to stop. Very slowly, gently, and with respect, I will remove my hands. Allowing you to just lay there and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Through the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality. This massagae is done on an outcall basis. If interested in an appointment or if you have any questions, send me an email with your name and contact information, so I can get back to you. All inquiries will be answered.]]>

<![CDATA[Conservative, 30-year-old white male looking for white male 30-55 for LTR.]]>

<![CDATA[If you are missing that special someone and cannot get them out of your mind, know you, you still love them, you know they are your soulmate and life is so unbearable without them. Repost this to another city and by midnight to 4 am, they will realize that they do love you and cannot live without you. You will get a surprise call from them. You must do this in the next 5 minutes]]>

<![CDATA[I am a married white male, seeking a female (age, race, body type doesnt matter) to get together with during the day for me to spank (hoefully make cry) and than JO on when Im done, nothing more really. Im married so during the day is best, please be able to host as well. The closer to crabtree mall you are the better. Open to other things as well but this is basically what I am looking for. Clean white male, 30, completely dd free. Blonde/blue. Please send pic and put Honest in the subject. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a 45 year old man who is genuine and down to earth. I�m slim, 5�11�, HWP, HIV Neg and DDF and a gentlemen. I am the monogamous type who is honest, humble, mature, fun, energetic, witty, affectionate, romantic, open minded, patient, respectful, responsible, down � to � earth, dependable, family oriented, optimistic, ambitious and goal oriented. I am looking for a man who is a gentleman and can appreciate a gentleman, has his head on �straight�, who is down to earth, and wants a good guy. He would also need to be single, the monogamous type, little drama, d and d free, have a job, attractive, loyal and looking for someone to date and to take the time to know. I consider myself to be from the old school so I would consider myself the old fashioned guy. I�m looking for an old fashioned dating scenario, meaning we get to know each other very well before the trousers come off. I am not much of a partier and haven't been to the club in quite some time and to be honest don't miss it. I find some of the things that are essential to begin the walk of a relationship are chemistry, attraction and core values. If we are attracted to each other, chemistry is sparking and we see eye to eye on certain core items, then we could be a match. If there are any interest feel free to say hello, start a conversation and include stats and picture (s). I will reply to all messages that meet the criteria and will very happy to share my picture with you! ]]>

<![CDATA[Join us be the Number 2 man in the relationship. Unique, but real. Looking for unique life style and permanent household Please be a mature, intelligent, professional, education, non-smoking Caucasian gentleman over the age of 55. Heading: Two men and a lady. Justthethreeofus]]>

<![CDATA[Good looking east Indian male (desi ) interested in meeting married or single woman for casual friendship. I am open to any race as long as you are decent looking. I will be staying here for few months, so willing to meet someone who like east indian male. ]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for a buddy who can appreciate cuddling time in the arms of another man. My buddy would be considerate, respectful and open to the idea that two caring men can appreciate the fact that we can cuddle, enjoy the touch of another man next to them, in the nude or not, without the expectations of physical sex being a part of the intiment moment. I am a very caring guy with a great heart! Physically I am smooth, slim build, white, 5'11, hwp, brown hair and eyes and am told that I am good looking. I cann't imagine anything any greater than having someone that you have gotten comfortable with thru cuddling moments to be a partner that you see yourself growing closer with over time. I am not looking for sex in this posting but looking for a guy where we have a physical connection where we want to be close, we want to care for each other, we want to wake up together in each others arms, and we want to enjoy the experience. If something beyonds cuddling comes down the road then I would welcome such at that time. Hit me up if you are a male under 55, who is clean cut, height and weight in proportion, down to earth, looking to share of cuddling moments with a guy that is white, loves to cuddle and promises to hold you close if we have the physical connection / chemistry. I feel for myself that I need the physical chemistry to be present in order to want to cuddle with someone. To me cuddling is an awesome way to share of awesome moments with another man that I am missing! Please respond with a picture and I will be glad to provide on of myself. Hope to hear from you!! ]]>

<![CDATA[I AM A REAL MALE IN THE RALEIGH AREA SEARCHING FOR A REAL TS/CD...ONLY RESPOND IF YOU ARE SERIOUS, I CANT STAND BULLSHIT. YOUR PIC GETS MINE. IM LOOKING FOR A FRIEND AND WELL SEE WHERE IT GOES FROM THERE. LIKE I SAID PLEASE DONT RESPOND UNLESS YOU ARE SERIOUS. I AM A VERY ATTRACTIVE STRAIGHT MALE BUT I LOVE TS WOMEN. THERE IS NO SHAME IN MY GAME AND PUBLIC OUTINGS ETC IS NO PROBLEM...THANK U TO ALL THE REAL PPL ON HERE....GET AT ME ]]>

<![CDATA[Pure Romance We sell lotions, lubricants, lingerie, and adult bedroom accessories. We do in home parties like Avon, and Pampered Chef but a lot more fun. If you are curious look us up. If you find yourself in a dilemma and can"t make up your mind which products to buy, just contact me and I can tell you how you can get them all FREE! It is the perfect girls night in. We are here to take boring out of the bedroom and put the "O" back in romance. For women only Must be 18 or older]]>

<![CDATA[Curious WM wants to try strap on. I have one, so you are not required to have one, just be open minded and playful. Attractive normal professional guy, caucasian, laid back. I have photos for trade if you are for real. Looking to try this asap.]]>

<![CDATA[For the past few years, I have been trying to find balance in my life. For me that has meant trying to establish the beginnings of a career and attempting to find a compatible guy to share my life with. Unfortunately, I have been unsuccessful at both and am growing tired of all this failure. Therefore, I have decided to focus my energies on scholastic and professional goals but thought it best to give one final attempt at finding love. In order to make an honest attempt at this goal, I feel the need to be honest, raw, and straightforward. Thus, the following may sound offensive to some while pathetic to others, but for that, I offer no apologies. I am thirty-one years old. I spent twenty-five of those thirty-one years in school�and yes, that includes pre-school. During my academic career, I achieved success, but I also failed myself greatly. Despite earning both a bachelor�s and a doctorate degree, I never obtained the formal education I truly desired. Today, I am trying to correct that. I have applied, and am currently waiting to hear back from graduate schools. In the meantime, I am living the life of a broke college student, and hopefully, I will be blessed to live that life for a few more years. I know that after years of preparation, most thirty-one year olds would be terrified to find themselves back at square one. I may have taken a twisted path to getting here, but I haven�t compromised on my dreams and am wiling to sacrifice a little longer to obtain them. Outside of the world of academia, I am a very modest and easygoing guy. I like the simpler things that life has to offer. I enjoy spending my time hanging out with friends, even if that means just sitting on the porch and talking. I love spending time outdoors and dream of �going off the grid� even though I realize that is about as practical as implementing socialism. They both sound great on paper, but are impractical in the world which we live. Thus, I settle for camping trips whenever possible. Just being able to get away from the stress of the modern world is nice. I�m also a big fan of the beach, but maybe not in the way most are. A trip to the beach isn�t so much about checking out guys during the day and getting trashed at night. It�s more about floating in the ocean and feeling connected to the earth. There is no better place than the beach, whether standing on the shoreline looking out at the vastness of the ocean, or swimming in the ocean itself, where we humans can grasp the immensity of our planet. Of course, I�ve never climbed Everest, so I could be wrong about that. I�m also a creator, an artist, at heart. I often am driven by the need to create. I fulfill this need in a variety of manners, sometimes woodworking, sometimes stained glass. I am intrigued with learning new trades or crafts, and will sometimes take on a project simply for the challenge of figuring it out. Similarly, I am intrigued with how people use and manipulate space. From a single dwelling to an expansive city, I am fascinated with how individual components are integrated to make a whole. I also love jig saw puzzles, maps, and Legos. I am an inquisitive person. I ask questions of people, of things, and of my surroundings. I rarely accept things as they are without an understanding as to why they are, in fact, that way. I�m not one who is obsessed with material possessions, but I don�t live a minimalist lifestyle. I own two pairs of jeans and feel most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt. I drive a fourteen year old car, and when she dies, I�ll buy another one just like her. I�m sure that when I have more disposable income, I�ll want nicer things, but I know I�ll never want elaborate things. I someday want to design and build my own home, but I hope to fill it with books I�ve read, furniture I�ve built, and art I�ve been given by friends. As for my physical appearance�if you�ve made it this far. I am 5�10� and weigh 165lbs. I�m in good shape, but far from great. I don�t have six pack abs and probably never will. I�m not opposed to working harder physically, but I know it would take a knowledgeable partner pushing me that extra mile. I am a white guy who is generally attracted to the same, but race or ethnicity is never a determining factor. I feel that that is a pretty good self-description, especially for online dating, but let me sum it up with the generic. If I had to describe myself in a list of words they would be the following: honest, loyal, trustworthy, loving, kind, funny, fun, intelligent, friendly, and hardworking. But I can also be: stubborn, inpatient, lazy, and foolish. Below I describe the characteristics I am looking for in an ideal mate. Bear with the format change. I haven�t gotten lazy; rather writing paragraphs around incomplete descriptions of a man I�ve never met seems inappropriate. Age: 25-35 give or take. If on the lower end, maturity is a must. If on the upper end, the ability to see the world through a child�s eye is desired. Physical Attributes: Similarly to age, I would prefer a guy whose physical appearance is compatible with mine. Would I love to date a guy who has the perfect gym body with a model�s face attached? Of course. But if he put that much effort into his physique, he would probably want more than I have to offer physically. In the same vane, I gained a substantial amount of weight in college and worked hard to get back to a healthy weight, so I would prefer someone who has made some effort as well to maintain his physical appearance. More importantly, though, is a guy�s self-image and self-esteem. In the past, I have dated some beautiful men who were so uncomfortable in their own skin that they prevented me, or anyone else, from appreciating it. Intelligence: I am looking for someone who is intelligent, but this need not be measured by academic degrees or professional success. Intelligence is innate, knowledge is learned. Masculinity: I am a masculine guy whose interests are not limited by his sexuality, and I�m looking for someone who is the same. Of course, I like some things that are stereotypically considered �gay�, but so do my best straight male friends. I, however, do not like things simply because I�m supposed to as a gay man, and I�m not looking for someone who falls into that trap. I would like to meet a guy who cares about brand names like Makita, Dewalt, and Ryobi over names like Gucci, Prada, and Louis Vuitton. (Yes I had to Google those to get the spelling right). Relationship Oriented: I am also looking for a guy who is serious about a relationship�someone who wants to share his life with another man. I am not interested in someone who is unsure about these things. Emotional Availability: I am not interested in a man who is incapable of expressing his thoughts, feelings, or emotions. When I am involved in any kind of relationship, be it work-related, a friendship, or a romantic relationship, I believe that communication and honesty are the keys to successful relationships. The inability to express what you need, want, or feel can be devastating to a relationship�especially for me. Caring and Giving: My ideal relationship is one in which both people involved want to give all they can to the other person. When both partners give without expectations of reciprocity, a symbiotic relationship develops that is fulfilling to both people. (Please don�t interpret this to mean financially. Of course, I hope to someday have a relationship that is stable enough for communal pooling of finances, but that�s something that takes a serious amount of time and commitment.) Additionally, I want to meet someone who is not afraid of loving and being loved. Though I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a solid relationship, when I fall in love, I fall hard. Afterwards, I want to be with that person as much as possible. Of course, I want to have �me time� and want him to have the same, but I am ultimately searching for someone to share my life with, not just three nights of every week with. In the same vane, I am not a jealous or selfish person. I will encourage my partner to spend time with friends and enjoy activities without me�as I will expect the same. Trust: When I am in a relationship, I believe that it should be built on trust. I will easily give someone my trust, but once they break it, it�s very hard to regain. And I expect the same. Additionally, I also TRUST that when I�m in a relationship, it�s because both parties want it. If one party no longer wants to be in the relationship, or doesn�t value the relationship enough to remain faithful, then they should simply end the relationship. No need for infidelity or any other BS. Whoa, if you�re still reading this, you�re either very bored or someone that I would be interested in getting to know. Send me an e-mail. One last thing: The most frustrating thing over the past years is the hours I�ve wasted in front of the computer getting to know someone who I never get the chance to actually meet in person. I understand the desire to get to know someone a little online before meeting, but the goal is meeting, not having another online buddy. So if you need weeks or months of online chatting to feel comfortable meeting someone in person, I�m probably not the guy for you�.only because I�ve lost my patience with such pursuits. ]]>

<![CDATA[I want you to know how much I love you - by how hard my dick is! this is what turns me on.]]>

<![CDATA[I posted the ad below last week and decided to give it one more try. All though I did get a few responses I found that either we had no connection or that once pictures were exchanged, there was no response in return. I have no problem with honesty and being told I don't think we'd be a match. If I have done the same, I do sincerely apologize. I am on here in hopes of finding a man of sincerity, honesty, monogamous, and who respects the value of a LTR and the work required that comes with it. I have always felt if its that difficult then its really not meant to be. We all come across issues in relationships. The true test is how as a commited couple we can concur and deal with it. Its all about communication. I'm looking to grow together and getting to know each other at a good pace. I ask that if you find yourself interested, please include a current picture for trade with your first response. I promise safe keeping and will respect it and expect the same in return. Serious only please! 42 years young, said to look in my 30's, 5'8 about 180, 32w, brn hair/eyes. Good looking! (so I'm told ) Im looking for somebody who has similiar interests but can also bring his own as well. Goal/career oriented with a lite/playfull side. Who is not materialistic! Willing and open to new experiences including travel, meeting new people, family oriented, loves dogs, working out, dinner and movies, game night with friends or the occassional night out. Not much into the gay scene or clubs but on occassion. Masc. demeanor and proud of their lifestyle. Not into games or drama! Looking for a LTR. Must be a good communicator, monogamous, and loyal. Chemistry is a must! Please be height/weight porportionate. D/D free If you find yourself interested please include a picture with your response so that I know its real! I will respond with one as well. Thanks! ]]>

<![CDATA[The title pretty much says it all. I've been seperated for almost a year. So I'm not looking for a serious relationship. Just someone I can have a good time with (i.e. watch a movie, drink with and sex on a regular bases). I'm an affectionate guy who loves the feel of a woman. If you're interested please send a detailed description of yourself or a picture. I do have a female friend who will have input on my decision. I hope to hear from you ladies soon. ]]>

<![CDATA[looking for my soulmate very passionate romantic love to travel]]>

<![CDATA[Single masculine nice professional guy(early 40s 175#) looking to meet single guys that are in good shape (HWP) for friendship or dating. Just like to make some friends and take it from there. I like working out, long walks, music, movies and hanging out at home just taking it easy. If this sounds interesting then drop me a line and tell me a little bit about yourself. Please put "Its a guy thing" in subject line - Thanks !]]>

<![CDATA[This is an oil based massage. I use only 100% natural Sweet Almond Oil with vitamins A, E and C to repair, nourish and moisturize the skin. My oil is totally water dispersible, there is never any danger of staining your clothes. Added to the massage oil is pure essential oils that help heighten your sexual senses. I start by relaxing and connecting with you while erotically charged music plays softly in the background. You will find my breathing will become synchronized with yours. When you are ready, I will have you lie face down, naked. I will be sensually dressed and will start by quieting and focusing my mind while resting my hands on your upper and lower back. You will feel the positive charged energy pass between you. Then, I will perform a relaxing massage on the back, neck, legs, buttocks and feet. I use our basic therapeutic principles of relaxing massage. I always keeps my hands in contact with your body, never breaking the connection of energy passing between you. This is never rushed, taking my time, being rhythmic yet sensitive, and proceeding from long gliding strokes to deeper ones. After relaxing your back, neck, legs, buttocks and feet, I will have you turn over. I now massage the arms,hands and chest, paying very special attention to your breast and nipples. I will then massage your tummy and pelvis area just above the vulva. I then glide down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, I glide back up and slowly brush over the pubic area, teasing it, this teasing process, is drawn out by brushing the inner thighs, near the vagina, very lightly touching the pubic region. At this point the erotic energy is building, making it a natural time to start shifting the focus to the sex centers of your body. At this time I will start the sensuous part of your massage allowing the erotic energy to pass between you and I. The rest of your massage will now focus on your sex centers, with periodic sweeps up and down your body to spread, balance, energy, and integrate the sensations. I am very skilled in reading your energy and arousal levels, I will smoothly and gradually build up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual massage. There are many techniques I will use and of course it is up to you to communicate what feels best. I will also change from an oil to a water based lubricant. The sensual massage is never rushed. I am very knowledgable, I will use many different types of stimulation. While orgasm is not the only goal, should it happen lay back and enjoy. During G-Spot stimulation ejaculation sometimes occurs which is perfectly okay as well as welcomed. At the end of the massage the sheet/blanket combination will be folded up over you to provide a warm cocoon. This is a time of profound peace and contentment to let the amazing whole body experience languor while you relax and enjoy the sensuous music. This massage is usually done on an outcall basis, meaning I come to you, but sometimes other arrangements can be made. If you are interested in more information or scheduling an appointment, please send me an email with your name and contact information and I will return your inquiry within 24 hours ]]>

<![CDATA[I am trying to find a woman to allow me peirce her on each side of her labia if she is not already peirced. Eventually putting a small padlock through them to which i get to keep the key to until you ask me to unlock it for you. A chastity lock if you will.]]>

<![CDATA[I don't want this to sound like an eHarmony commercial, because they make me want to hurl, but here we go.... Today is supposed to be a day all about LOVE, and instead of being bummed about relationships that haven�t worked and all the games boys play that break hearts, I�m going to be optimistic. I am an extremely lucky man who lives a happy life and I want to share in a loving and fulfilling relationship. It�s that simple! About me: I am 27, white, 5�8� with brown hair and hazel eyes. I am told I have a gorgeous smile and adorable eyes (pic for trade). I am well educated and have a wonderful career. I am a Christian, and my faith and beliefs are an important part of my life. I am a romantic person, who would love nothing more than spending an evening in the arms of the man I love. I have an outgoing personality, a witty sense of humor, and I love to make people laugh, although I am shy at first. I am also not �out� and do not plan to be, so hopefully that will not cramp your style ;) If you�re cool with that, please continue� I am sensitive and �sweet�. I am considered to be a very good listener. I usually put others� desires and needs ahead of my own. I have always been very patient, understanding, and laid back. I am not hard to please at all! However, when I know what I want, I go for it 110%. With me, there is no doubt about commitment and dedication. Who I�m Looking For: A guy between 18-32 who is confident, has a great personality, and has a sense of purpose in his life. I want someone who has goals, knows how to love, isn�t afraid to express his feelings, and who lives with integrity. Honesty and common respect are expected. I am not into the clubbing/gay scene AT ALL and prefer someone who is similar. Love happens gradually, but I am looking to have that one steady, satisfying relationship that helps love happen. I want to fall in love and be loved in return with no games, gimmicks, or drama involved! It can�t be that difficult, right? I am determined to find it! If any of this sounds similar to who you are or what you�re looking for, take a chance and reply. Please be specific about yourself, what you�re looking for and definitely include stats and a face pic. I know there are some great guys out there who are serious about finally finding something that is REAL. Please respond and let�s �go for the gold�! ]]>

<![CDATA[Single masculine (DDF) black man looking to meet white single masculine man that is in good shape (HWP) DDF for friends or dating. Just like to meet some new friends and take it from there. I like working out, long walks, music movies and hanging out at home taking it easy. If this sounds interesting then drop me a line and tell me about yourself... Thanks! Please put black 4 white in subject line ....Thanks 40's six feet, 195. ]]>

<![CDATA[ Fit, submissive male who has experience serving and very much enjoys this lifestyle seeking a Dominant woman who enjoys or is curious about this lifestyle. It can be something very casual part time or if you are open to something more serious that is fine to. I just miss serving. I enjoy many different facets of the lifestyle so I won't expect you to care to my fetishes as I am her to cater to your wants/needs. My only requirement is that you live somewhat close to Raleigh. I will respond to all serious inquiries. It snowed last night so that shows you I am real.]]>

<![CDATA[As I struggle to maintain my faith in the dating scene I choose to focus on what I have to give to "the ONE" I want to compliment and make feel more complete . I hope to give a heart that yearns to give with no end and to take a chance on love like I have never hurt or loved before. I have tried to simplify my life so that when we meet we have the time and energy to devote in getting to know each other. If your calendar remains full and you choose to stay in the fast lane then please do us both a favor and view someone else's profile who can appreciate always being in the fast lane. I enjoy the more relaxed and spontaneous moments so I don't want to waste your time and appreciate the same consideration. Having the time and energy to get to know you is very important to me and I would welcome you having the same respect for "us". Giving the emotional, physical and spiritual connections to "the ONE" is what I hope to give and the connections that I hope to receive in return. Since I am looking to offer the whole package with a emotional, physical and spirtual connection I welcome a picture. I have first offered you one of myself so I don't feel that is asking too much. I find myself drawn to guys around my age and younger, someone who maintains a healthy life physical and takes pride in himself and respects himself. Only can one respect someone else if he first knows how to respect himself. I am a low maintenance guy that has been very blessed with many life experiences and has made me the guy I am today. Thru these experiences I feel the greatest blessings are the blessings of knowing I am capable of love and capable of giving of love. To be able to share of "OUR" life�s together, to be able to share of life�s ups and downs moments and to be able to take the walk of life together is what makes me know life will be more complete when our paths cross. Away from work you might find me outdoors with nature, walking or biking the greenways, enjoying being curled up on the couch watching a comedy or a romantic movie or just enjoying the quietness. On the weekend a nice ride to the beach, a weekend at Ocracoke Island, nice ride to the mountains, evening out at the Durham Bulls Game or just a nice ride on the country roads might be in the picture. Another awesome way of spending time on the weekend would be just lying on the couch cuddled up while watching a nice movie embraced in each others arms. AS long as we are together it really won't matter what we are doing. If you are looking for "the ONE", the one who wants to enhance your life, the one who wants to compliment you with a loving and giving heart, the one who wants to embrace you with awesome arms and to help you become a better person.. don't miss the chance on "US". I look forward in hearing from you and sharing of what we have to share together! ]]>

<![CDATA[So......I posted here a short while back, and got a few replies.....none really clicked......after looking back at that ad with two of the most awesome people on the planet I was told a re-write was in order, as the prior didn't quite do justice to how kick ass I am.....so here goes a revision....thusly approved by those who know me best. In my relatively short life I've experienced a lot. A lot of love, a lot of loss, a lot of trying times requiring hard work and sacrifice, and a fair bit of good fortune, smiles, and laughter. Every day I discover a new thing in this world that breaks my heart, and one that gives me hope. I wouldn't have it any other way. I love life and try hard to celebrate the good times as well as the lessons that come from the not so good. My friends would say I am kind, giving, funny, smart, outgoing, handsome, and down right awesome. I tend to agree with them. On some occasions I can sit back in a group and be in observation mode, but in most cases I am the life of the party (at least one of them). I have a penchant for making people smile and laugh, generally at the most inappropriate times, its always more fun that way. I enjoy many typical guy things, and "gay" things alike. Some days my ass and the couch are in perfect harmony while I watch some TV, movies, or play a video game, and other days I can hardly stand still and you can find me playing softball, exploring the city, or on a road trip to the beach, mountains to go camping, or just out DOING something. I've never met a roller coaster or a bad scary movie I don't like. I have a great career, and my own home, that I share with my dog, who is my heart. She is the sweetest thing in the world and loves me whether I am taking her for a walk, feeding her, or scolding her for getting into trouble.........now if there is just a guy out there like that. :-) I am what most would describe as a romantic (though I am certainly not hopeless), and am at the point in my life where I am ready for something real. For the most part, I'm a simple man, you won't often hear me quoting some obscure author or speaking in thought provoking metaphor, but I am educated, intelligent, and always exploring something new. Mr Perfect? Yea right. Who wants to live up to that, or live with BEING that. I'm not after the perfect guy, I'm just waiting for a nice, honest(read that one twice, it's important), mature, down to earth guy who has enough in common with me that we get along, and is different enough that we can always maintain our individuality and have new things to share with each other. I am a WM 6'1" 250 dark blonde/blue eyes and I pretty much always keep a goatee. As far as what I am looking for, I don't have too many specific preferences. I am generally most attracted to other W, latino, or mediterranean guys. I can be friends with any age, but for dating 21-35ish have proven to be the best fit. You have not come to the end of my epic ad, so feel free to e-mail me and introduce yourself!]]>

<![CDATA[Can host and would love to see what turns you on - 31 yr old girl and 40 yr old guy. all good in the hood]]>

<![CDATA[GWM ten years (at least) younger looking than stated age, slim build, attractive w/ blue eyes, brown hair, hairy but clean shaven, 30 in waist, 158 lbs, w/ pleasant, easy going personality, well adjusted to the slings & arrows of life, hiv+, seeks HWP 20 - 60 yo open minded or other poz gwm for dating pursuant to companionship & long term, monogamous relationship. I will kindly respond with recent pics & other particulars to those w/ serious inquiries only (no lectures or rants plz) who can see beyond the status wrinkle & who desire a real chance for love & affection w/ an authentic, kind & sensitive guy who enjoys body rubs, cooking, hiking, the movies, cuddling, kissing, traveling & other romantic notions that can be invented by two guys in love for the long haul.]]>

<![CDATA[It�s been four or so months since I posted what�s below. Met a few decent guys from it, but unfortunately I didn�t sense long-term potential, even as sweet as they were. So, after a very brief dating stint outside of here, I find myself revisiting the opportunity again, ever optimistic that, somewhere, there�s a great guy compatible with me in all the best ways who is ready, truly, to consider something serious. (Note: if you recently got out of a relationship and are still dealing with �closure� or �moving on� issues, or if you're still puzzling through who you are and what you want out of life, I�d respectfully ask that you proceed to someone else�s post...we're not a match. If you do happen to be stable, genuine, authentic and dating/relationship-oriented...feel free to read on.) ******************************************************* WANTED: a remarkable guy to meet, get to know, date and then some. To be clear, I�m not posting this because I�m one of those idealistic, gooey, hopeless romantic sorts who has been pining for this since I realized what truly flipped my switch. It�s taken a lot of combing out, screw-ups and soul searching to get me from where I was to where I am. Seems I�m ready, finally, to meet �him��an honest, cool, has-his-shit-together guy with depth, decency, sincerity and integrity, as rare as a person like that may be. I know you�re out there�hidden away in a regular life, just as I am, but with no means to uncover one another except for an otherwise serendipitous intersection�perhaps like you happening across this post. (I�d prefer a real-life grocery store cart run-in, but that only happens, as far as I can tell, in those hard-to-swallow urban myths.) Like me, you probably avoid the boy bars, have mostly straight friends and find it challenging to meet someone with whom you resonate on all levels. As lonely as you might get, though, you don�t compromise yourself, settle for less than what you feel deserve or put your health at risk by sleeping around. The best things, we know, are worth the wait, especially if there�s a better future involved. You�re a good looking, masculine guy as well, comfortable in your own skin, confident without being cocky, healthy (ddf) and fit across the board, personable, intelligent, laid-back and adventurous. You likely enjoy camping and hiking, too, along with road trips, a cold imported beer, Australian wine, dogs, movies, restaurants, grilling, a wrap-around porch, mountain visits, time at the coast, getting lost on purpose, and finding your way home. You�re thoughtful, romantic, and passionate even if that side of you is hidden just a bit. You love to kiss, hold, touch, connect and be present with someone who matters. This is who I am. This is who you are. Here�s hoping you find your way to me. Regrettably, I have to keep it discreet, as I work a high profile gig and am only out to a select few. So, attached is a recent image of me that was �rendered� by a graphic artist friend based on a picture he snapped during a trip to the mountains last September. I�ll share more photos if and when I make a promising connection. More details in the meantime: I�m considered to be a very attractive white guy of Dutch/German/Czech ancestry, five foot seven, one fifty five, brown hair, dark blue eyes, and a really nice white smile. History has shown I relate best to other stable, sorted-out guys in the 30 to 40 age range. Turns out it pays to have more than a few things in common and to be situated more or less in the same chapter of life, so I'm not likely to stray too far from either end. My thanks to anyone who makes the time to respond, even recognizing that there may not be a connection, even from the get-go. If you do choose to respond, please offer some details about yourself, including what you�re looking for, as well as a one or more photos. Stats are good too. Thanks�and best wishes. ]]>

<![CDATA[NOT looking for a hookup or friends with benefits. Please be between the ages of 18-29. Not trying to be mean but no blacks or Latinos need apply just not interested. As for me I am 20 years old, I grew up on a farm so I guess I am a country boy, I love the outdoors, sailing, hiking, the beach. I am 5'8 and weigh about 130. If interested please feel free to send me an e-mail ]]>

<![CDATA[im a mtf crossdresser looking for a female friend to go shopping and chat with nothing else just freindship]]>

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